The Newman Crew

"We Don't Do Halloween," and other scary stories...

2010-10-27T07:56:00.000-07:00

Did the title make you nervous? Sorry about that. If you participate in Halloween and love it, you might not want to read on.

Seriously.

When we tell people that we don't "do" Halloween, people tend to get defensive. And angry. And feel sorry for our children. And defensive.

If you are one of those people, please do not read on unless you are simply curious, and promise to keep an open mind and still love me by the end, whether you believe me right or wrong. I am not trying to impose my family's beliefs on others, or try to convince you that Halloween is bad, or sway you in any way really. Lots of people ask me why, so here it is.

I'm writing this post to simply explain why my family doesn't participate. We carry no judgement towards other families who do - we love you guys! And whether or not you participate in Halloween doesn't make us love you any more or less. Ok? It's like saying that we judge you because you don't root for the Rangers and we do. Ok, I will judge you if you don't root for them - that's just plain crazy folks! :) Kidding. Kind of.

So - back to Halloween.

As a kid growing up, my family participated in Halloween activities. We decorated out house very scary - the scariest on the block - and handed out candy. We dressed up in our silliest, scariest, funniest costumes and trick-or-treated up and down our neighboring streets. We went to all the haunted houses, watched scary movies, and went to scary party of the city to find ghosts. The works.

Then, we got married and had Kimmie. It had me rethinking it all.

When we went trick-or-treating, we saw lots of scary costumes. And scary houses. And she got scared. And it made me think of this verse - "For God did not give us a spirit of fear..." If it doesn't come from God, then where does it come from? You guessed it. satan.

So I started doing some research. I've never been one to take someones word for something - I want to have my own faith and own beliefs and know why I believe what I believe. I'm a researcher. When I started looking up the origins or Halloween, it made me nervous. It scared me. And the more I thought about it, the more uncomfortable I got. So I prayed. Jimmy and I talked about it. And I prayed until I got an answer.

And when the answer came, I resisted. I do like Halloween. I like the excitement and seeing kids dressed up. And I do like getting candy. But God convicted me. And I'm a firm believer that is God convicts me of something, then its in my best interest to obey.

***Side note***
When Jimmy and I discussed this years ago, Jimmy was not 100% on board. In fact, we argued for weeks. But because I feel so strongly about this, Jimmy chose to honor me and stand beside me in this conviction. And he does. I don't know why God convicted me of this and not him, but we stand together in the decision and I believe that God honors this unity.

Back to Halloween.

Let me give you a little background about where Halloween originated. Years ago, people did not honor God and worshipped idols made of wood or stone. Sound familiar? Yep - it's been going on since the bible times. They believed that these idols had great power and that the spirits of the dead could control the living. They thought that the spirits of wicked people who had died returned on Halloween to harm or scare the living. So, to keep the evil spirits happy, people set out treats and other types of sweet treats to keep them happy. They wanted the evil spirits to stay away and not trick them. That's where "trick-or-treating" originated from.

A group of farmers in Ireland called Celts asked everyone in the village to come to a town party and bring food. Then they gave the food to the evil spirits by burning it in a bonfire. Many villagers wore costumes made of animal skins and bones, and some farmers wore animal heads. That's how the tradition of dressing up came to be.

And jack-o-lanterns? They started from the story of a man named - you guessed it - Jack. People believed that after he died, he walked around the earth carrying a lantern. So folks would hollow out pumpkins or turnips and put candles in them. They set them outside their front gates to scare away evil spirits who might think Jack was there.

Hundreds of years ago, Roman rulers passed a law that everyone should believe in Christianity and accept it. Most people became Christians because they had to, not because they wanted to. Instead of giving up their wicked beliefs and worship other gods, they added these things to Christianity. When Roman rulers tried to stop Halloween parties, the people got angry. They saw nothing wrong with mixing their false beliefs with worshipping Jesus. So the Romans moved a Christian Holiday - All Saints Day - to November 1st and gave October 31st the name Halloween, which means Holy Evening. Then they told the people to pray for the dead on Halloween, instead of praying to other gods. Halloween has always been a religious holiday, but it has never been a "Christian" one, because changing the name of something doesn't change what it is. So changing the name of Halloween didn't change the things that still happen on this day. Did you know that this is the single biggest holiday on satan's calendar? Many religions all over the world use this day to worship satan and idols.

*Now the next part is purely my observation based upon research and my own opinion. Many will not agree with it, and that's ok. I don't expect us all to - that's what makes us different!*

Halloween centers around evil, scary things. In fact, many costumes picture witches, ghosts, goblins and other creatures that are enemies of God. I believe that if we are Jesus' friends, how can we have fun if we look and act like His enemies? Joy comes from being like Jesus.

When you take other Christian holidays that originated from pagan holidays, like Easter or Christmas for example, both have found a way to bring the glory back to God throughout Christianity. And we are all about honoring God with what we say and do! And to participate in Halloween is dishonoring God, and we can't grow in our friendship with Him if we are participating in things that dishonor Him.

I am tempted all. the. time. to give in this time of year. My kids want to dress up and go to carnivals with their friends. The want the candy. They want to have fun. And so I pray. And get the same answer. Halloween just isn't for us. The bible says that knowing the truth sets us free, and knowing the truth about Halloween makes me even more adamant that we don't participate.

And sometimes I and conflicted. I am the director of a local church preschool program here, and as far as I know, this preschool has always done Halloween. Should I impose my beliefs? No. I don't think this is a salvation issue. And in all honesty, sometimes I feel like a hypocrite, and I don't know how to resolve that issue. I struggle because I'm human. I let my 3 year old son dress up yesterday. And now that I think about it, I probably shouldn't have. I did it because I didn't want him to feel left out, and he couldn't stay home with Jimmy, and I don't think he understands yet. I think he will next year though. And maybe that was wrong. I'm still learning.

I'm reminded of lots of things that are fun to do that are only appropriate in a certain time or place. In fact, most things that the bible (God) frowns upon are actually fun! Take sex for instance. Lots of fun! But, only appropriate when you are married.

When my kids are older, I hope that they explore this and other things for themselves. I hope that they don't simply believe things because someone else tells them. I hope they don't accept things as truth simply because they read them. I want them to have their own thoughts and develop their own faith. Don't go blindly through life and doing things because they have always been done!

I know that we cannot avoid Halloween - it's everywhere. I am not trying to shield my children from all things bad - good heavens! I can't keep them locked up in a closet. They are going to see bad things everywhere. I know this. But I also know that it is my responsibility to raise them to be solid, firm believers in Christ. And to listen to His voice in my life. And as their parent, I am going to do my best to follow His calling on my life, whatever it may be. Even if others disapprove.

Many people say that as a Christian, I am making people hate me by taking a stand on Halloween. That I am separating myself and being too self-righteous and encouraging a non-believer to hate me/us. We try not to. We don't belittle others, or judge, or throw it in your face - we simply choose to abstain from it. If that makes you hate us, then that sounds like a you problem. We still love you! :)

For those who choose to evangelize on Halloween - God bless you! I don't at all think that is a bad thing to spread the good news of Christ.

FAQ

Why can't you dress up in playful costumes and not participate in the scary things and participate in Halloween?
I've thought about this one a lot. And my answer is this - I just don't feel right about it. Knowing the history behind Halloween, and the fact that it does nothing to bring honor to God just makes me uncomfortable - right or wrong. It just isn't for us.

Do your kids ever get to dress up or eat candy?
All the time! We play dress up very often and love it! And, we have been known to eat the occasional piece of candy or two.

Do you ever have fun?
Yep. We are pretty normal in the fun area. We love all things fun:)

Are you always a stick in the mud?
Not always. I really am a fun gal:) I love to have fun and be goofy. I love sarcasm, too:)

Are you sure you're not judging me because I DO participate in Halloween?
Positive. We love you and that has nothing to do with Halloween!

I hope that by the time that you made it to the end of this thing that we are still friends:) Believe me, I would not preach this to anyone who didn't ask, so if you read this far, you promised to keep an open mind and still love me for my beliefs, whether you believe them right or wrong. And Halloween or not, I do love you all, my brothers and sisters because He first loved me.

A Super 4th Birthday!

2010-10-23T21:03:00.000-07:00

Guess who had his 4th birthday party today?

True, his ACTUAL birthday is not until November 1st, but with a birthday right after Halloween, we usually have to plan the party either the weekend before or after. If you give kids the choice of going to a birthday party or dressing up and going to get LOTS and LOTS of candy, usually the candy wins:)

THIS party though might have given the candy a run for its money:)

We set up the table, and all the decorations...

And our villain "Captain Insane-o" tried to ruin the party by dropping bombs!

Luckily, our superhero training prepared us to disarm them.

And what is a superhero without his cape?

Cade was enthralled that CJ got to come to his party!

I love this shot of Captain Insane-o - and Kinsey flying in the background:) All part of our superhero training on the obstacle strength training course.

Cousin Maverick cheered us on from the sidelines.

Kimmie shows us how to outsmart Captain Insane-o and complete the course.

We had some pretty tough superhero trainees. We learned that our hiding our identity keeps us safe - so check out these super secret dudes!

Captain Insane-o was at it again - this time dropping kryptonite to try to drain our strength!

With the proper tools though, we ruined his evil scheme and were victorious!

And our super sticky webs got him once and for all.

Finally we were able to go inside and enjoy some birthday cake.

And unwrap some presents.

And enjoy a long and laborious day or superhero training.

Here's to all of our trainees, and those who wish to keep their identities a secret:)

Our Visit to the Pumpkin Patch

2010-10-18T21:01:00.001-07:00

Another pumpkin patch post – yes. It's that time of year. Maxwell's Pumpkin Farm gets better and better every year we go!

Just look how much we have grown since last year!

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And we even wore the same shirt! Good to know we got some more wear from itJ

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Pretty soon we are going to be taller than this signL

Cow trains...

The ole farm added some fun things this year, like the obstacle course through the corn maze…

And the big balloon bouncy pillow thing was fun, too!

And of course the big slideJ

And Cade found a cycle that was just his size.

Cade was getting a little tired at this point…

And so was I…

But we mustered enough energy to find the perfect pumpkin…

And had the perfect end to our visit by visiting Sonic. Sorry, no pictureJ

Happy Fall!

Pink Poodle Party (or Kinsey's 7th Birthday!)

2010-08-21T15:05:00.000-07:00

What would a 7 year old's birthday be without a great party to celebrate?

The party was complete with friends, family, crafts and games, and of course, cake!

Aren't these the cutest poodles you ever saw?

Get your wish!

I even attempted the cake - a poodle of course!

We made dog collars, dog ear headbands, and played a game to see who could clean their "dog bowl" out the quickest - Emma won!

Happy 7th Birthday sweet Kinsey:)

Is There Anyone Who Has Been There?

2010-08-16T13:46:00.000-07:00

I always feel this way this time of year.

At the end of every summer, a flood of emotions hits. Happiness and relaxation - having spent time with my family, finished some projects that had been looming, and just flat out been lazy a few of the days - feeling like I really enjoyed myself and my family this summer. Sadness - that my kids are another year older and that they will be back to school. But mostly, it's a time of reflection.

At this time of year, every year, I start to think about who I am as a Woman of God. Am I really living up to what God has called me to be as a wife, mom, leader, and child of His? Am I following His calling in my life? Have I truly invested in my family and friends like I should?

Am I the only one who is here right about now? Anyone?

What is it about this time of year that makes me feel this way?

Whatever it is, it has me just a little bit sad. Not the kind of sad that makes you feel depressed and self loathe. No. The sad that calls me to action. To remember who I am as a spiritual leader in my home and in my community. To stand firm in my faith and not grow tired and lazy. To re-prioritize and remember who I am and what I stand for.

Maybe this feeling is a good thing.

Summer Vacation

2010-06-10T16:19:00.000-07:00

A little show I put together after our little trip...

though it wasn't until after I put this together that I realized how few pictures I had actually taken:( The Canada countryside was beautiful.

This picture slideshow personalized with Smilebox

Mission Accomplished

2010-05-30T18:22:00.000-07:00

In my head, several years ago, I created somewhat of a Bucket List. Now, it is not one I ever wrote down, but there are goals there none the less. Some are small, like finishing scrap booking projects and summer cleaning. Some are bigger, like writing a children's book (I really love children's literature) and running a marathon.

I got to check one off today:)

After running a half in November, I actually felt like I could keep training and then do a full. I originally signed up for OKC, but when Kinsey's ballet recital was planned the same day, I quickly changed my plans. Why Buffalo, NY? It was close to the same date as OKC and close to Niagara Falls and our friends in Canada, o it made sense as a race and family vacation!

We spent the last few days visiting the falls, visiting friends, and a little shopping. Went to bed early and, as Murphy's Law states, last night didn't go quite as planned. We awoke at midnight to Kimmie, in the bathroom, sick. It was not pretty. She was up for about an hour. Then, our oh so kind hotel neighbors decided to throw a kickin' party next door. I listened for about an hour and then Jimmy finally called the front desk. They took care of it promptly - yeah!

This morning went pretty quickly from breakfast to the start of the race. I felt good, weather was nice, and my pace was strong. I kept a little over a 10 minute mile for the first half, despite having to wait for a train - yes a train - at mile 8! It was a little amusing, but sad it cut into my time, and made me stop - I am not a "stopper." I was a little sad at mile 12 when the half marathoners left, too. That meant that I was really doing this thing! The next few miles were a little harder, but I made it through. Then, out of nowhere around mile 20, my knee gave out. Totally frustrating to say the least. I had just begun having problems with it a few weeks before the race, but it was mild and never kept me from running. Then, starting at mile 2, I felt the twinge and just kept running through it. Not until I stopped at mile 20 for a drink did it really get me. I kept trying to get going again, but it just wasn't happening. I watched my time get further and further away from my goal and finally settled on the fact that it just is what it is and there is nothing I can do about it. Except run another one:) Someday...

All in all, I am thankful to have run my first marathon. Do I wish it could have gone like it did in my head? Yes. But, I leave with no regrets. And I leave a marathon runner:)

Sundae, Sundae, Sundae!

2010-05-04T20:12:00.000-07:00

Get it?

This week was National Teacher Appreciation Week - yeah! I hold a very near and dear place in my heart for teachers. These guys love my kiddos when I'm not there and shape their character in big ways. We have been so blessed to come across some sweet, Godly, gracious teachers in our lives and am so thankful that they have been a part of my kiddos lives.

Ok, off my soapbox:)

After a few minor issues, and a small breakdown, I made these sundaes for my kiddos teachers and my sweet KU staff. I say my because these ladies are like my family and when I talk about family, I always claim them:) No, these sundaes are not edible - they are bath salts! I got the idea from ---> HERE. I had to adjust it a bit, but I think they turned out pretty cute! I put ribbon around them so the tops wouldn't fall off and make a mess. And after searching all over town for bath beads, I found these cute strawberry ones at Ulta. Thousands of them at Christmas time, but none to be found in the dead of spring. Go figure.

Celebrate your child's teachers whether you like them or not - be the blessing you want to see in others:)

When You Find Your Niche

2010-04-24T21:07:00.000-07:00

When our middle child was born 6 and one half years ago, we had no idea the joy she would bring to our lives. I've said it a hundred times, but when Kinsey enters a room, she brightens it almost immediately. She is full of life and joy resonates from the inside out.

When she decided to try ballet, we let her. And let me tell you - this girl has found her niche with dancing. Every move is pre-meditated and purposely graceful. She probably thinks that the whole audience is there to watch her, and she performs as if it were true. It is so fun to watch!

Her oh so talented (and responsible) big sister, Kimberlyn, graciously recorded the dress rehearsal for me since I was a back stage mommy and we can't record the actual recital. This is almost as good as the real thing. Please forgive Kimmie's shaky hands - this was her first experience with the camcorder. Since my friend Liz was also a back stage mommy, Kimmie made sure and got some shots of Hannah as well - she is a hoot! I love watching these girls:)

Here is a link to Kinsey's ballet video on YouTube ------------> CLICK HERE!

If I gain some more patience, I will upload her tap and finale videos, but for now, enjoy ballet:)

My Populr Roal Book

2010-03-31T17:40:00.000-07:00

Written by Kinsey Newman ( a 6 year old who just recently lost one of her two front teeth, and whose take on life is anything but mundane)

***Reprinted by Heather, with permission from Kinsey***

Roal #1 You should always be chasing boys. Ignore boys when they say hey.

Roal #2 You should always be on my team that I pick for you.

Roal #3 You should always have a nickname.

Roal #4 You ahould always wear populr stuf like jlrey, make up, dress, populr shrts, sweters and jakets and lunch box and backpack and lunch box.

Roal #5 You should always be togethr and beside each uther.

This is a happy ending.

:)

Mr. Romantic

2010-02-12T14:34:00.000-08:00

Ah Valentine's Day. A day for love and mushy gushy feelings for everyone all over the world. A time to remember our loved ones.

Valentine's Day comes in a very close second to Christmas as far as I am concerned. Don't get me wrong, I don't expect big gifts, candy, flowers and the like. But, every year, Jimmy never seems to fail in revealing another charming surprise on this particular day. And I love every minute of it.

In fact, 11 years ago on Valentine's Day, that's when Jimmy and I officially started dating. Well, he says Valentine's Day - I say super bowl party. Hey, when a guy throws snow balls in your face and buries you in the snow, that is love I tell ya!

So imagine my excitement when I learned what Jimmy had gotten me this year. :) I opened the door and right in front of my eyes was a giant red bow, a card that read "To the Love of My Life" and under both was...

A heated potty seat!

Now, before you laugh, you should know that Jimmy was voted as the "class romantic" in our bible class a few years ago - really! And another thing you should know - I have practically begged for the thing since we have been married! I HATE getting up in the middle of the night and setting on a cold potty. So, all you ladies out there, eat your heart out. I truly am married to "Mr. Romantic."

*** I realize that Valentine's Day is Sunday, but since this particular gift had to be "installed," we gave each other our gifts a few days early.***

*** I even took a picture! But the camera is acting up, so you will just have to imagine it:) ***

Check Yes or No

2010-02-09T19:38:00.000-08:00

Another Kinsey post. After receiving a "warning" in her take home folder (her 4th for the year), Kinsey wrote this note to Jimmy.

Of course, he checked yes. And gave up the spanking. *sigh*

Just smile:)

2010-01-21T20:49:00.000-08:00

This happened a week ago, but I am still laughing about it - I hope it brightens your day somehow!

My Kinsey is a free spirit. We often joke that she is the "joy" in our family because she simply brightens a room. When she is gone, we know it. Her sweet innocence and naivety are often the butt of many jokes - this particular one being a perfect example. One thing I love about our doctor is that she always involves the kids in any appointments we have, asking them questions and not talking over them. She lets them take an important part in their health care.

Doctor: Well, Kinsey, is there anything that has been bothering you lately?

Kinsey: No. But I do have eczema on my tummy and sometimes it's itchy.

Doctor: Oh my, what is that?

Kinsey: (glancing questioningly at the doctor, then me, then back at the doctor) You're the doctor!?!? You should know!

Home Again

2010-01-04T07:42:00.000-08:00

After a week in St. Lucia, it is bittersweet to be home again. We missed the kids like crazy, so it is nice to catch up on all of the snuggles and kisses and "I love you's." But there is also nothing like having no worries or agenda for a week. So in a proper farewell to a well spent vacation, here is 10 reasons why I will miss being in St. Lucia.

10. Room service for breakfast. And eating from a balcony overlooking the ocean. *sigh*

9. Finishing 2 whole books without interruption.

8. Getting to spend every day with this gorgeous hunk.

7. Hot rock massage for an hour and a half. Heaven:)

6. Staring out at this all day.

5. Sunsets like this.

4. Eating whatever, whenever, and NOT having to cook:)

3. Getting a nice tan right smack in the middle of winter.

2. 86 degrees.

1. Celebrating 10 years just the two of us.

Great memories on a great vacation. Here's hoping that the next 10 will be even better!

Back in a Week!

2009-12-25T19:34:00.000-08:00

Ocean! Volcano! Caribbean Sea! Can you tell I'm excited? Back in a week with more pictures!!!

MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!!

How we celebrate 10 years...

2009-12-18T19:52:00.000-08:00

When my husband told me that we would be spending our 10 year anniversary in Borger, Texas, I must admit that I was a little surprised. Don't get me wrong, I grew up there and there are many great things about Borger. Both Jimmy and I have family there, or near there and there are (a few) restaurants. But, Borger is not exactly my idea of "the place to be" for an anniversary. We are going to St. Lucia after Christmas to really "celebrate," but I was at least hoping for a kidless dinner at a nice restaurant.

What we did celebrate was a renewing of our vows, complete with the actual minister who performed the ceremony the first time (who also happened to be Jimmy's cousin - small town!). He added another ring to my wedding set, complete with diamonds (which are a girls best friend!) He made a slide show of the first 10 years - it was fantastic! In fact, it is also now on youtube, so if you want to see it, go =========> here

He even "re-proposed" to me where we met (it's a long story, but one you would love!)The girls gave me flowers on the way in - it was a perfect way to round out 10 years. So thankful, grateful, joyful, emotional, and just plain happy that God brought us together 10 years ago. Happy Anniversary Jimmy!

Christmas Mice

2009-12-05T19:26:00.000-08:00

Before we moved into this house, almost exactly one year ago, we lived in a tiny little apartment for 3 long months. Not only was it small, but it was also home to a very large family of mice. I was mortified.

Now, a year later, I have discovered just what to do when you run upon a family of mice. Unleash your toddler boy on them.

Don't worry - they are edible:)

For the recipe, go here.

Only 20 days left until Christmas!

One FULL Weekend

2009-11-18T20:31:00.000-08:00

This past weekend, Jimmy and I traveled to San Antonio with his cousins (whom I also claim). It. was. a. blast. :)

We ate great, did a little shopping, and even threw in running a half marathon. That's 13.1 miles. I always feel like I need to make sure and add the point one at the end. It's not just thirteen miles, it's thirteen point one. So there.

I picked out my race outfit a few weeks ago - I know, sounds silly. But I figure if I'm all sweaty and my hair looks like something out of an M. Night Shamalan movie, I should at least try to look cute. Sort of. I found a running skirt with capris attached and knew it was love at first sight. And they looked great:)

Anyway, back to the race. There were 32,000 runners signed up to run, of which around 26,000 actually ran. I have never see so many crazy people all in one place - except at Thanksgiving, but that's it!

They set us up in corrals (which I felt was a totally appropriate word considering I felt hearded like cattle) from number 1 - 33. I was in corral 13. That meant that they started the race, and 20 minutes later, I actually crossed the starting line. That's ok though - it gave me time to think and stretch. And use the bathroom one. last. time.

The first nine miles were great - I kept my pace almost perfectly and the scenery was great. My only complaint was having to run around all of the walkers. Don't get me wrong, walking is fantastic, but I almost ran a girl over after she stopped dead in her tracks right in front of me. Use running etiquette people. If you are going to walk, move over to the side and let us slightly faster than walking people through the middle to give the super fast runners someone to dodge:)

Mile 10 was a little harder. My stomach started growling making me wish I had eaten a bigger breakfast. And I passed 2 stations that were handing out beer, which made me feel a little nauseous. Really? Beer? I can't think of a thing that I would want less. Gross...

Mile 11 was when my calves started cramping up. I kept hoping the mile 12 marker was around the corner, only to find that it was still a ways away. Ugh.

At mile 12 my body was tired and my calves and arches were really sore. So much so that I started counting steps to try to distract my mind from thinking about them. It didn't work - my mind was too smart to outsmart myself:)

When I finally saw mile 13, I knew I was almost done and wouldn't you know it, the race people were kind enough to make it uphill so we could really see what we were made of. How thoughtful:)

Finally - finish line. The life parallel to every goal I have ever had and then that final crossing the finish line and finding some much needed rest. Grab the finisher medal, a water, fruit, wet towel, and then stretch. Ahhhhh. It was a good rest.

My favorite parts of the race were the absolutely beautiful scenery (historic downtown, the Alamo, King William District, Alamo Dome), the many encouraging pep groups, and receiving texts from my hubby the whole way. He would text me and tell me what mile marker he was at so I would be sure and wave when I saw him. It was nice to see a familiar face. So nice.

Here are the stats from the race for me:

Bib number: 13735
Overall (all runners) - 5590 of 20067 half marathon finishers (top 28%)
For females - 2368 of 12609 female half marathon finishers (top 19%)
For my age group (25 - 29 years) 479 of 2150 (top 22%)

If you are really bored, you can catch a glimpse of me actually crossing the finish line ======> here

Or see the actual course ======> here

Or type in my bib number and see pictures ======> here

But only if you are really bored. :)

I posted a few pics from the race below. See if you can spot me at the starting line... I dare ya:)

PS While we were away gallivanting around San Antonio, we were blessed to have Jimmy's mom enjoying a weekend with Kinsey and Cade. Kimmie had a cheer competition in Dallas, so she was blessed to spend the weekend with her Uncle Brad and Aunt Charity. She must have had fun, because she asked if they could take her to all of her out of town competitions:) Oh, and they placed 1st out of 5 teams!! Go Cheer Texas!!!

Cade's Third Birthday

2009-11-07T19:30:00.000-08:00

From the first picture, you would not be able to tell that Cade had actually been asking for that cupcake all morning. Since his birthday and his party were on different days, we had cupcakes on his birthday, and cake for his party. I love that he is at an age where he gets just a little embarassed when people stare at him. It's cute:)

Here are a few from the party tonight. There was a hay ride, a wienie roast, and yummy cake - made by Aunt Charity. It ROCKED!

Here's hoping that all your birthdays are full of fun, food... and lots of little monkeys:)

Another First :)

2009-11-07T19:15:00.000-08:00

Kinsey's first motorcycle ride. She did great - with training wheels of course. She is somewhat of a speed demon. We have to constantly keep telling her to slow down and pay attention!

Oh, and just 'cause I took them, here are some pictures of our Christmas tree. Don't judge:) We didn't get to put up any Christmas decorations last year since we were moving, so we are celebrating twice as long this year. Merry Christmas! (47 days early:) )

And a night shot - it always looks more "Christmas-y" at night:)

A Lesson in Patience... and Forgiveness

2009-10-26T10:00:00.000-07:00

It's Friday morning.

The phone rings. The caller ID says "Olsen Park Elementary."

'Uh oh' I think. 'Someone must be sick.' (I wish)

'May I speak to Mr. or Mrs. Newman, please?'

'Speaking.'

'We were just calling to let you know that while in class today, another student cut Kinsey's hair.'

'How bad is it?'

Long pause. 'Weeeeeeeeeelllllll... it's not that bad. We already took care of the little boy.'

'Really? You cut his hair, too? You spanked him? You may him dig a pit and then jump in for punishment? You made him write a thousand times 'Scissors are for cutting paper - not hair!' PLEASE tell me it was something along those lines!' Ok, I was kidding about that part. Sort of.

Back to the story.

3:00 that afternoon. I see Kinsey standing by her classroom door. I remember now that I had put her hair in a ponytail that day. Eek. Please let it not be that bad.

I actually get a good look at it - it's not too terrible. Her hair will have to be cut, though. It was a sad day at the Newman Casa. Kinsey LOVES (loved) her long hair. It will grow back. I will keep telling myself that. It will grow back.

Now, before you say 'It's not that bad' please understand that the picture does not do it justice. It really was that bad...

Before

After

Well, there IS a smile...

Pumpkin Patch Pictures

2009-10-17T12:48:00.000-07:00

Maxwell's Pumpkin Farm

These were taken yesterday at a pumpkin patch with Aunt Leeann and cousins Maveric and Fox.

Fall

2009-10-11T20:46:00.001-07:00

Why I Love Fall

* Pumpkin spice lattes from Starbucks, or any pumpkin flavored foods for that matter!

* Purple, orange, and green clothes and accessories. Mostly shoes. I kind of have a thing for shoes:) And purses. But mostly shoes.

* Football.
Let me explain. I'm not a big fan myself, but Jimmy's best days are spent sitting in the easy chair, when it's cloudy outside, eating a burrito from The Plaza, with a fire going, with a football game on. It's very Zen. For Jimmy anyway. And when my man is happy, I am happy!

* Cooler days. Oh yes - there is nothing I love more than a good run on a cool day. Fall is my favorite season to run.

* Holidays.
Fall is the beginning of pumpkin patches, wienie roasts, s'mores, and hay rides. It also includes Thanksgiving and Christmas - and I LOVE Christmas!

* Hot baths.
There is nothing better that warming up in a hot bath after being out in the cool of the day. It makes you feel all warm and toasty and comfy. Sometimes I will fill up the tub jsut to roll up my pant legs and put my feet in the water. I know it's wasteful, but it feels so good!

* The leaves.
Watching the leaves fall and change color can be absolutely breathtaking.

* The fireplace.
There is simply a feeling of comfort and warmth that comes from lighting a fire in the fireplace. It's very "homey."

*Sweaters, jeans, and boots.
I know I already mentioned shoes, but boots fall under a different category. They are more like accessories:) I am more comfortable in my jeans than anything else. I love them.

Here's hoping you find things you love about Fall!

It's So Like Me...

2009-10-02T13:49:00.000-07:00

Click (here) to read a blog that I can completely relate to:) I don't know the girl, but it's like she took the words right from my brain and spread them out so nicely on her blog. Sometimes you feel like a princess, and others, well, you just don't. :)

A Few BIG Days

2009-09-25T19:26:00.000-07:00

On Wednesday, for the first time, Cade and I met our Wednesday church play group at the Tri State Fair. We have tried on a few occasions to meet up with them, but sickness and busyness has always gotten in the way.

Needless to say, we had a great time.

Cade was in a pretty sour mood until he saw the tractors - I think we spent most of our time here.

I'm not sure which was more exciting for Cade - his foot long corn dog, the fried ice cream, or sitting next to Phoebe.

And unfortunately, this was as close as we got to the animals. By the time we got ready to head out, they had closed down the petting zoo for lunch, or rest time - we couldn't figure it out.

On Friday, Jimmy celebrated his 30th birthday.

And the girls made him these lovely decorated cakes. Later, we went to Ruby Tequilas to eat dinner with some good friends and waited...

and waited...

and waited...

and waited...

and waited...

and finally, it was cake time! Did you see the fabulous guitar shaped cake courtesy of Belmar Bakery? It was delicious! And there were lots of candles to blow out...

and it might have taken a few breaths...

But the best part of the evening is always spending time with good friends (and their children of course!)

Happy 30th Jimmy! I love you!

Is He Calling You?

2009-09-17T19:29:00.000-07:00

There are moments in life where you feel the Spirit leading so strongly that you simply cannot resist the urge to move. To act. To do something.

Today, I experienced one of those moments.

Have you ever seen the light shine through the clouds - just barely - where it looks just... well... amazing? This morning, while taking the kids to school, this was one sight on our way.

Kinsey, from the back seat, said, "Mom, that looks like God shining down from the sky."

I smiled. Yes, I think that sometimes, too.

"Kinsey, you're right."

"But mom, how does God shine down ALL the way from heaven - it's so far."

"It's not as far as you think. How could it be? God is close. Sometimes, God is so close I can hear Him speaking to me."

"God speaks to you?"

"Yes - sometimes."

"He speaks to me, too."

Now I'm curious. We haven't really ventured here before. Now I'm wondering where this will lead.

"What does He say?"

"Well, I say 'I love you,' and He says 'I love you more.'"

How sweet and precious. Why have I never asked this before? Why should I assume that God would never speak to children? Of course He would!

Fast forward to bedtime. Let's try this again. I tell Kinsey that we should practice hearing God again, because He talks to us a lot, but sometimes we don't listen. So, we try again. We pray, and wait and listen. Then Kinsey says,

"Mom, He talked to me again."

"What did He say this time?"

"Well, I told him that I'm sorry that I do bad things sometimes like lie and he said that's OK and He loves me."

Sweet again. Now off to Kimmie's room to tuck her in. Kimmie's a bit more of a thinker - too much perhaps. She will try to reason this out. So, I ask her if she ever hears God speak to her. At first, she says no. Then, she says,
"Well, one time I thought I heard you guys call me, but then I realized that it wasn't you because you call me Kimmie, and not Kimberlyn."

Bingo. We pull out the bible. I go right to it - but not how you would think. This isn't a "standard Bible." It's a "Day by Day" bible which means that it is just made up of stories and not in sequential order. Yet still, I turn to EXACTLY what I was looking for. Coincidence? I think not. 1 Samuel 3 - the story of God calling to Samuel. 3 times, he heard God calling him, and finally Eli instructed to him to answer, "Speak Lord, your servant is listening." Which is exactly what I told Kimmie to do. She is a little scared. I understand - I was scared of God as a kid, too. But my prayer tonight is that God does speak to her, in her dreams, and it is the sweetest dreams she has ever had.

Random

2009-09-07T19:14:00.000-07:00

The beginning of school 2 weeks ago, the start of Kid University on Thursday, and Labor Day weekend. These are the reasons that I am behind on blogging lately. Who wants to hear about life's business anyway? And I have been terrible about taking pictures. Terrible.

I did have the opportunity to catch up on some book reading this weekend, as Jimmy's folks so kindly took the kiddos for a few days. We also went for a motorcycle ride or two, slept in late, and against my better judgement, watched "Twilight."

At first glance, a book and/or movie about vampires is not something I would automatically be drawn to. I like action movies, and comedy movies and the good drama every so often, but vampires? You can count me out. But, because we use Netflix, it came in the mail and sat on the side table for a good 5 weeks. Upon watching it, I was pleasantly surprised! And I hear the book is even better, so now I am adding that to my growing list of books to read.

I attribute the success of this movie (and book series) to a few things. First, the good looks of the actors along with their uncanny way they portray their character makes for a good watching experience. I will unashamedly admit that I have somewhat of a girl crush on Robert Pattinson (who plays Edward) - if I can still have those. But really, what the movie does it to appeal to the true desires of women. What more would a woman like than a man who listens to her, looks at her with desire yet is a perfect gentleman, speaks openly of his feelings for her, and wants to love her forever (literally)? And the fact that he sparkles - what girl doesn't like shiny things? :) Ok, the last one was a bit silly, but truly. What a great movie.

But to go as far as to take relationship tips from the movie? I think not. It is what it is - a good movie. A mysterious vampire holds no candle to my love:)

Other than my "Twilight" overview and school starting up, I have little to blog about - until next time...

Charts and Index Cards and Cork Board, Oh My!

2009-08-28T20:48:00.000-07:00

Throughout the summer, our bible class has been plowing through a series on parenting. One main part is to come up with a vision ( or, more so, discover God's vision) for our family.

It was hard.

It was hard to decide how we should go about writing it. It was hard to decide whether or not we would have our own personal goals together with the families, or separate. It was hard to decide what few things we would really like to focus on a family. It was especially hard to find time to do this all.

But catch a vision we did.

Now, if you know me, you know that when God created me, he left out any semblance of a "crafty" bone. I like to DO crafts, but I'm just not very GOOD at them. I plan on doing a makeover on all of the vision boards and charts, but that will be saved for a later date. What's important is that we have SOMETHING to go by - and I can "cute it up" later.
That's a Jimmy term people.

I know, it's just paper pinned onto a cork board, but I have big plans to prettify it later.

This If/Then Chart is a stolen idea from the parenting series. They have been around forever, but I just recently discovered it so it is new for me:) It helps us to be consistent and helps the kiddos know what to expect. I like it. I did have to look long and hard to find an example of one for free. My gift to you - just steal mine:)

Part of the vision is scripture memorization - for all of us. We plan to "write His {living} word on our hearts" so that we can stand strong against the attacks of the enemy.

The front of all of the cards has a picture - in case you are a visual learner like me.

Our first verse:)

Spiritual blessing is another holy habit to "get into." It helps us to have some handy.

We hang them up by the kitchen table so they are available and close.

Do you have any good ideas to share? Don't be shy!

Heard Any Good Gossip Lately?

2009-08-18T20:30:00.000-07:00

No, I'm not talking about that juicy tidbit of gossip that tastes so yummy when first swallowed but it a little sour going down. I'm definitely not talking about that news that makes you secretly rub your hands together because you just 'knew' the 'truth' would come out about that person who you hoped would one day fall. Destructive, manipulative, vindictive gossip is never good. There is enough teaching and more than enough scriptures warning and commanding us to keep away from this sort of speech. We are cautioned to keep away from such evildoers that would speak slander.

So, then, what type of gossip am I talking about? Can there be such a thing as 'good' gossip? I firmly believe the answer is yes! Can you encourage and bless others by speaking about others behind their back? Again, I resoundly say. Amen! Is there gossip that spurs us on to good works? Yes! Not only does it spur us on to good works, it speaks new life, creates new dreams and brings forth blessings back to ourselves.

Have you ever had that surprised pleasure that comes when you pass by a couple of people chatting and hear your name mentioned in a positive way? Have you ever met someone for the first time, only for him or her to say, "Oh, I've heard such good things about you!" And you can tell them mean every word of it? What a rush of encouragement it is, when someone notices you in a room and waves you over with a huge smile on their face. "We were just talking about you!" Once again, you can tell by their expression that they were only speaking good of you and not evil. This is good gossip! It tastes good to the tongue and tastes even better when it settles in your spirit.

How did you feel when you heard from others that a friend defended your honour when spiteful remarks were made about you? It probably made your heart glad and brought a deep sense of gratitude and relief.

What's the point?

The "Golden Rule" sums it up nicely. Do unto others as you would have others do unto you! If you want to be blessed, bless others first. Let the first words out of your mouth be uplifting and encouraging. Be the first to look for the good in others and the first to share that good with those you meet. Foster a spirit that just can't wait to share the latest good you've seen in someone else. Don't assume someone else is noticing what you notice. That brother in Christ quietly picking up empty coffee cups and washing up after a meeting deserves to be talked about. His servant heart deserves to be recognized. Be swift to tell others your observations of 'good'. Delight yourself in finding out those nuggets of blessing! Search for them and you'll find them right under your nose. Be the first to share those blessings once you find it. Don't be selfish! Tell others about the blessing you found that brother or sister in Christ to be. Let others in on your secret so they too can be blessed. You'd be the first to advertise a favorite chocolate bar or a good movie, so do the same to advertise the goodness in others and the blessings they are to God and His church.

Begin to look for the good and you'll be surprised what you will find. Even within those who you never have quite found a heart connection. If you train your eye, your ear and your heart to be on alert for the good, you will indeed see the good. You'll see the areas that once bothered you about that person become quality traits rather than irritation. For example, their supposed perfectionism may actually be a desire to truly bless others and give only the best in that goal to bless others. Assume the best in others and you usually will get the best in return.

When you are in the midst of a group that is intent on malicious gossip, swallow fear and speak the truth in love. By your example, you can turn the tide and build sandbags of edification to keep out the floods. Floods of maliciousness and pettiness wash away the works of God in not only the lives of those that the group gossips about, but also the very group itself! Try not to rebuke but lead by example, bringing up good points about that individual. If the conversation continues, walk away, rather than take part in the tearing down of a brother or sister in Christ. Never listen to a person's negative report concerning a fellow believer without making sure that person has first gone to that brother or sister in Christ in the hope of bringing reconciliation and healing. Close your ears and your heart to such practices, even if they are being fed you under the guise of a 'prayer request' or a 'concern'. With an attitude of love and humility, don't be afraid to ask the bearer of the negative word the following:

1. How do they know what they are sharing is indeed true.
2. Have they sought out reconciliation, if the situation pertains to them specifically?
3. Do they know why they felt led to share this word with you, especially if they themselves were not involved with the situation?

Don't be afraid to be known in your circle of influence as the person to whom you should not share gossip. Pray that others follow your example.

Always make it your practice to ask yourself a few questions as well. "Is it kind? Is it true? Is it edifying? Does this person need to know this information? Would I say these things if the person in question was standing beside me?"

Does this all sound a bit too Pollyannaish to you? Well, what's wrong with being a Pollyanna? Didn't she change a bitter, pain-filled town into a place full of good cheer and happiness? Didn't she bring healing to a society that had long soured in the pickling juice of evil hearts and malcontent spirits?

A few scriptures for you meditate upon as you ask the Lord to train your lips to speak good and your eye to see the truth through His eyes.

Psalm 37:30 (NIV)
The mouth of the righteous man utters wisdom, and his tongue speaks what is just.

Proverbs 23:15-16 (NIV)
My son, if your heart is wise, then my heart will be glad; my inmost being will rejoice when your lips speak what is right

Proverbs 31:8 (NIV)
Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves…

1 Peter 4:11 (NIV)
If anyone speaks, he should do it as one speaking the very words of God. If anyone serves, he should do it with the strength God provides, so that in all things God may be praised through Jesus Christ.

3 John 1:12 (NIV)
Demetrius is well spoken of by everyone--and even by the truth itself. We also speak well of him, and you know that our testimony is true. (Can you imagine Demetrius hearing through the grapevine the good others shared about him? Wouldn't that spur him on to even better works?)

Ephesians 4:29 (NIV)
Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.

Read the very beginning and the very end of many of Paul's letters. Learn by his example and be the first to 'brag up on' those who have blessed you. Be the first to share the good news and be the first to point out to others those people who are a blessing to you and to the body of Christ. Yes, there is such a thing as good gossip. I pray the Lord blesses you with the gift of encouragement and the gift of not only seeing the good in others but helping others see the good as well.

(adapted from Katherine Walden Devotionals)

Family Camp @ Blue Haven

2009-08-17T11:45:00.000-07:00

Second year at Family Camp, and just like last year, I didn't get all of the pictures that I wanted. The road of life is filled with good intentions.

It might have had something do do with the fact that at any point during the weekend, one of my kiddos, or my spouse, were off playing by the creek, playing horseshoes, swinging, playing board games, fishing, or just plain enjoying being outside. I *heart* those kinds of weekends.

The "theme" this year at camp was "Family Adventures." We made adventure books and even wrote of our future adventures that we would like to have - most of which had to do with destinations. I would love to travel to Spain or Italy someday. Jimmy would like to visit Australia. Kimmie - Paris. Kinsey - Dallas. And Cade, well, when asked where he would like to go someday, he simply responded - "Nanny's house." I guess Nanny's house is an adventure in itself:)

A favorite of mine - I mean a REAL FAVORITE - is playing board games. I love to play games. LOVE them. This weekend, I brought a game called, "The Game of Things." It includes cards such as - things you wouldn't say to your grandmother - things you wouldn't say to a stewardess, etc... Depending on the crowd, this game can get pretty rowdy! Needless to say, we had fun:) And I learned a few things about my friends...

Below are a few pictures of our weekend adventure, though few include our church family and friends - who are in themselves, part of what makes this life an adventure...

A Day in the Canyon

2009-08-10T18:23:00.000-07:00

It's amazing how we can live next to the second largest canyon in the US and barely notice. Every time I go out to Palo Duro Canyon, I am ALWAYS impressed with the scenery.

We loaded up with snacks, drinks, PB & J sandwiches, sunscreen and bug spray.

First, we hiked up Paseo Del Rio trail - a 2 mile hike - and the kids did pretty well. There was minimal whining, and nothing that a chocolate granola bar couldn't fix. I carried Cade most of the way back, but hey - 2 miles for a toddler is hard!

Then, we donned - or more, THEY donned - their old yucky swimsuits for a dip in the murky waters of the creek. They had fun, but I always forget how muddy they get.

After that, we cleaned up ( as best as you can whilst in the dirt) and stopped at a picnic table off the side of the main road to eat our lunch - PB & J, carrots, chips, and whatever snacks were left.

All in all, we had fun - a great way to round out the summer:)

Something New?

2009-07-28T22:18:00.001-07:00

Since I have been doing SOOOOOOOO great on posting to my own blog (insert eye roll here), I opened up another one!! Excited?

Well, not just me (hopefully), but I hope to play a part.

Along with other parents who are trying to figure out this whole parenting thing, we're going to (try) to post some practical ways to impress upon the hearts of our children a love for Christ (Duetoronomy 6 :)). Check out the first post -

impressinghearts.blogspot.com

Fruit Pizza and Summer Camp

2009-07-19T19:41:00.000-07:00

Well, life has been happening for the Newmans for the past few weeks - therefore, not many posts! However, I will post a few pictures from this past weekend. This year, I was blessed to go to a weekend summer camp as a counselor with Kimmie - Summer in the Son. Sadly, once again, I was not as prepared as I should have been and the battery ran out on my camera about half way through. It might have had more to do with the fact that some young campers had my camera for most of the first evening, but regardless, it quit. Luckily, I got a few great shots before the battery ran out.

This was actually a really great shot of Ron and Liz.

And in non-related news, I made a fruit pizza last week that was really yummy:) Cinnamon crust and sweet cream cheese topping made it oh so delicious - and it even looked pretty:)

My House is NOT a Museum

2009-07-06T18:55:00.000-07:00

Before reading this post, beware that I am only speaking from what I have learned. It's not fact. It's not the be all end all. It's not even advice. But it is something that has been on my heart for, well, a while now.

For a few years (many, actually if you only count my married life) I have struggled about how "clean" my house should be. Not necessarily for MY sake - goodness knows I like clean, but I don't have to clean my house every day to be satisfied. No, I care what people think of my house when they come visit. I want them to feel welcome, and to feel welcome, I think that people need to know that you have prepared for their arrival. You don't want them sitting on dried cereal, or step over toys when they come in. Or(as in the case at my house today) a "fort" in the middle of the living room that you had to go UNDER to get by.

But even more than that - what does God think of how clean a house must be? And what's more - does He care? To this, I look to scripture. No, there is no scripture about having a clean house - clean meat, clean people and clean animals yes - but a clean house? No. The phrase "cleanliness is next to godliness" is just a proverb, not God's actually inspired word (in case you were wondering - I was:) )

And then I read Matthew 25. Just to refresh your memory - there within is a parable about talents - you know - the 2 servants came back and doubled the money they were given, and one buried it and earned nothing. The master praised those who had done well with what they were given, and scolded the one who did not. It this parable, Jesus speaks of talents (money) but could it not also apply to anything God gives us. After all, we are simply managers of everything given to us, right?

To the servant who buried the talent, Jesus called him "wicked" and "lazy". He made no attempt to do anything with what he was given. But wicked? And lazy? Eeek. That is harsh. When God blesses us with money - we give it and manage it wisely. With our children - raising them up as disciples. With free time - investing in our church, friends, family relationships, time in the Word.

With our house? I think God expects us to manage it wisely. We keep it clean, make repairs when necessary, open it to friends and family. We prepare our house for guests to honor them, not impress them. It's work. It takes time. But it's about investing in those relationships.

I also think it's a balance. The other part of me wanting constant clean is probably more about control, or quirkiness, or some lesson I'm trying to teach my children about being organized. Or maybe something else entirely. After all, my house is not a museum. It is not a thing to be looked at in awe, so that people may come and see all of the fancy things I have. It is a resting place for my husband, a disciple center for my children, and an occasional solice for a guest.

I do know that the older I get, the less I care about a clean house. It could possibly be that I have more children on my hands, but I like to think that maybe, just maybe, I'm investing more time in relationships and less time on cleaning.

After all, I won't be asked how clean my house was, but what I did for the kingdom...

Something to think about...

A Birthday and A New "Do"

2009-06-27T11:40:00.000-07:00

9 years ago, a wonderful thing happened. Before I knew it, my life changed forever. It became harder. It became more full of joy. I became more patient, more flexible, more able to relate. I became a mom - for the first time - Kimmie's mom.

There is nothing particularly special about this birthday - another year older, another year wiser. Nothing special, except that 9 is halfway to 18. I know she won't be gone forever, but at 18, I have so many hopes, expectations, and dreams for Kimmie - and at 18, she will have her own as well. Oh, she does have goals now, but at 18, they will be all hers. She will still need me, love me, call on me - but at 18, she will be her own person. At least that's my prayer for her.

This past week, our class began a new parenting series and our homework is to come up with a vision for our family. Another way to look at it is to ask, if another family were to describe us, what do we want them to say? Sound easy? You'd think - but I'm finding it hard to narrow down into something tangible that we can all relate to.

How do I want us to be? I want our family to love God, love people, be giving of time, money, ourselves to others. I want my children to be caring, gentle, kind. But I also want earthly goals and my struggle is - is that a bad thing? When talking to Kimmie, her "goals" are to do well in school, gymnastics, cheer. And for me - well, I have goals, too. I want to run a marathon, be a forever learner, be a supportive wife and mother. How do we condense all of these into one?

I know that in the end, it boils down to love. So, my question to all of you out there, is - have you ever done this? Do you have a vision for your family? How did you arrive at it? What helped you? How do you communicate it to each other - your children?

Any advice would be appreciated:) I'm still learning...

PS A few pictures of Kimmie before and after her haircut - she followed after a sweet friend and donated her hair to Locks of Love...

Road Trip (and other news)

2009-06-16T20:19:00.000-07:00

***Just an added note from the previous post - we discovered that 6 pounds of twizzlers goes a long way on a road trip as well:)***

For my family, I added some pictures from the trip at the bottom of the post. Now, on to the trip!

Day 1 -
Drove 735 miles to Memphis. Not much interesting to this day except that we made it with little whining.

Day 2 -
Visited Graceland and ate at Rendezvous - now that was an interesting food joint! We got there through and ALLEY DOOR! :) Paper plates, but some yummy BBQ. Then we drove to Nashville.

Day 3 -
Visited Nashville Zoo and the Country Music Hall of Fame. Dinner at the Cheesecake Factory to finish off the day - my favorite way of course:) That night Jimmy and I went to Tootsie's Lounge and Legends Corner - he calls it " honky-tonkin.' "

Day 4 -
Visited Nashville Shores ( a water park that was a little bigger than Splash here in Amarillo, but smaller than Six Flags). Then off to eat at a hole in the wall Mexican food restaurant that was FANTASTIC! Wish I could remember the name...

Day 5 -
Went shopping, saw "Night at the Museum Part 2," ate at Dave and Buster's and then went to the Grand Ole Opry where we saw Little Jimmy Dickens, Charlie Daniels, Lorrie Morgan, Ricky Skaggs, Little Big Town, Trace Adkins, and Carrie Underwood. A GREAT line-up, although Kinsey asked if Britney Spears was going to show up. Seriously?!? How does she even know who that is?!? I'm pretty sure I have never purposely listened to any of her songs...

Day 6 -
Drove to Atlanta and went to the Coca Cola Factory and sampled sodas from all over the world. Pretty fun! Then, off to Stone Mountain just an hour away. We went on a train ride and watched the free laser show that evening - it was great! I wish we had stayed there longer. It looked like a lot of fun for the kiddos:) We also purchased a light up sword for Cade that he has not let out of his sight since. Poor kid - he doesn't have many "boy toys" with 2 older sisters around. Thank goodness his Nanny gave him some money for that sword! Although I do have to "pretend die" now about 10 times a day - hey, it's a great ego boost for him. He needs to be manly every so often.

Day 7 -
Drove to Moultrie and went to a wedding rehearsal ( which was the real reason for the trip) and then ate a yummy dinner afterwards.

Day 8 -
Wedding Day! Not much on the agenda for that day except swimming that morning for the girls, a trip to Walmart for diapers, fixing 3 girls hair (took 3 hours - sheesh!) and then the actual wedding. It was beautiful and sweet and I loved being a part of it. Unfortunately, I did not get any pictures of the bride! I don't know what I was thinking, but I am hoping that some will be forwarded to me soon.

Day 9 -
Drove over 800 miles to Lindale Texas (just a random stop). We passed through Georgia, Florida, Alabama, Mississippi, Louisiana, and then into Texas. I was so proud of the kiddos - they were great travelers:)

Day 10 -
Drove HOME to Amarillo!

All in all it was wonderful:) I LOVED the time with my family and the time away from Amarillo. It was much needed and was renewing for the spirit.

Car Trip Survival Guide

2009-06-03T18:53:00.000-07:00

On Friday, Jimmy, Kimberlyn, Kinsey, Cade and I will be headed out on a 10 day car trip, passing through such great cities as Memphis, Nashville, Atlanta, and Baton Rouge. Sites to see include Graceland (thanks Dixie!), the Grand Ole Opry, Stone Mountain, and the Coca Cola bottling company. If you know me, you know that I am kinda sorta addicted to Coke. But that's not the point.

The purpose? Jimmy's brother is getting married to a very sweet, precious woman named Charity. Since the wedding is in, well, let's say a "small" town that was a little ways from an airport, we decided that driving might be more fun than flying. And, we just might get enjoy the journey as well!

To prepare for the trip, and the few days that we are in the car most of the day, I have been collecting some items that I think might some in handy along the way.

1. Wipies
You just never know when your child will decide that chocolate works much better when it is smeared across their face and clothing than actually in their mouth. Which brings me to my second item.

2. Tide pen
Well, this one is just a staple to keep in the purse, but none the less, I restocked it just to be sure.

3. New markers and crayons
New ones have an appeal to kids that I can not explain. They may not touch the same old crayons in their craft bin, but pull out the new package and it is like a whole new toy!

4. Cool lap trays
Like these. They work well for coloring, eating, reading, doing games or puzzles, and fit perfectly across little bodies, while still leaving room for all of the kiddos to have one. I *heart* them :).

5. Neck pillows
I don't know about your kiddos, but mine sleep A LOT, especially on car trips and it never ceases to amaze me the positions they can writhe themselves into to sleep. It always looks so uncomfortable. So, I found these. I figure it is worth a try.

6. Snacks
Need I say more?

7. Water bottles
After my carpet adventure (you'll have to refer to Jimmy's blog for that one), Jimmy replaced my carpet in the entire car last week. Right before our road trip. With 3 children. Ugh. In order to try to maintain some of its newness, we bought them each a nifty little water bottle - the kind where the straw folds up so there are no drips. We plan on pouring all of their drinks into those. Hopefully, we can avoid another car carpet catastrophe.

8. Books
All 3 of my children love books - and I am so glad that they do:) However, their tastes vary quite a bit. So, for Kimmie, we purchased " How to be the Best at Everything," (which is really quite a cute book, despite the title - many fun ideas such as how to have the best sleepover, how to be a natural beauty and how to be a best friend), an "Art Starts" book ( little craft projects that are all confined to the tear out pages within the book), and an activity book about the 50 states. For Kinsey there's "My Big Pink Book of Everything," "Where's Waldo" (she loves seek and find books), and "Fancy Nancy's Stupendous Sticker Book." For Cade, there are books about tractors, cars and monkeys.

9. Sticker books and/or coloring books
Stickers can keep little ones busy for hours and they are just good, clean fun. And who doesn't love to color?

10. (Non-messy) Crafts
On whim, I picked up a craft book on making potholders. It looks simple and involves a weaving technique that is supposed to be appropriate for 8 year olds. We shall see...

11. Games
Card games such as Old Maid and Crazy Eights. And wouldn't you know, they even have lap trays to play them on:)

12. Movies
Praise God for car DVD players! When all else fails, pop in a DVD to pass a few hours for your child. They are magical.

13. Map and schedule of the trip
Ok, this one might be more for my sanity. Or all for me, but whatever... I like a plan people!

Anything I am forgetting? If you have a good idea, send it my way. I have one more day of packing and then we are off...

Today is the Day...

2009-05-24T11:46:00.000-07:00

Today is the day.

After years of thinking about it, wishing for it, imagining it, and even setting goals for it, I have finally decided to do it.

I have decided to run a marathon. 26.2 miles.

I know for many who have already done this, it seems like a small feat. And for others, well, it just seems plain crazy.

A few years ago, I set a goal to run half of a marathon. A full one just seemed too out of reach, having had a five year old, and two year old at home. I kept telling myself that one day I would make time for it and eventually I would do it. But after years of wishing, decided to just do it. I began a vigorous training routine and after 5 months of training (and discovering that I was pregnant with #3 at the last 8 weeks!) I finally did it. I ran 13.1 miles in 2 hours, 9 minutes, and 45 seconds.

The feeling at the end of the race was awesome. I did it. I completed it, and I wasn't dead, or dying, or even injured - just done!

After that, I greatly reduced my workout routine due to the fact that I had an enormous growing belly, and then after that, with a newborn, quit working out all together for a while. Once Cade was about 18 months, I trained for and ran another half marathon ( a trail run at Palo Duro Canyon). While this one was much more difficult with the many hills, I still finished and really, really enjoyed it. Now, over a year later, I am ready for another challenge.

I just turned 27 last week. I don't want my life to be full of " I sure wish I would have..." or "If I had only..." No. I want it to be full of "I'm so glad that I..."

So why all the fuss? Why post it out here in blogland? Accountability. Ask me how I'm doing on training. Encourage me. Hold me accountable. I could never have done my previous races without a few key people who did this. And with this being an even larger feat for me, I need even more accountability.

Now, I know as well as any that there are 2 different kinds of people.

1. People who think I am crazy ( or running in general is crazy) and who roll their eyes at the thought of running. Reporting any kind of exercise or working out makes you simply cringe. You do not want to be supportive because it all simply annoys you. If this is you, simply change the subject, smile and look away, or simply walk away while I am on a training conversation. I understand. It can be annoying. None the less, I can not promise that it will never come up in a conversation with me. Just ignore me if it does.

2. People who love exercising and running and who love to talk about it. While marathoning may or may not be for you, you still support, encourage, and don't mind talking about exercising and training. If this is you, you will become my best friend over the next several months. I will hunt you down just for the few minutes of listening and encouragement that come from you. I'm needy, I know.

My own husband, whom I love so deeply, falls into the first category. And I understand. REALLY, I do. But, like I said, I am a needy girl, and I can't do it without my cheerleaders.

I have heard many people say that running a marathon will change your life. Invisible barriers that you set for yourself will disappear once you realize that something you did, was not something you thought you could do. I want to grow. I want a new goal. I want to run a marathon.

Meet the Newest Member of...

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the Cheer Texas Youth Squad!

So proud of you Kimmie!

He's Not Alone

2009-05-15T07:19:00.000-07:00

Kinsey: Mom, I'm so happy today.

Me: (still half awake fixing her hair) Oh yeah - why is that?

Kinsey: Jesus and God are not alone.

Me: What do you mean?

Kisney: Well, everyone who has died from a long time ago is with them and I bet they are all drinking coffee.

Be blessed today!

How To Have a Proper Mother's Day

2009-05-08T12:48:00.000-07:00

Step 1.

Invite all of the right guests.

Poor baby - he's embarassed to be seen at a girls tea party.

Step 2.

Decorate the table and prepare the food accordingly.

Step 3.

Play games.

High heel races...

"My Mommy loves, my mommy loves not ..."

Step 4.

Unwrap the perfect present.

( Did you notice the "card" - AKA a bunch of sticky notes on top of each other - it is the best card I have ever gotten - really! )

Wondering what's in the bag? I'll give you a hint - it's pink and purple striped. Love it!

Here's hoping that you have a blessed Mother's Day - if you are a mom - count your blessings! God is good:)

New Age Exercise

2009-04-30T19:21:00.000-07:00

First, go down and read my newest post about Cowboy Day - it's actually just a smidge better than this one, but I needed to get 2 in in one day...

No really, scroll down and read it first...

Did you read it yet? Are you disappointed? Well, this one's likely to disappoint you then as well...

As I type this post, and the one before, I am actually exercising on my elliptical machine. Granted, it is probably not the BEST workout in my career, and my arms are not gaining any of the benefit, but HEY - I did accomplish two things at once! Isn't that wild?

Our TV in the basement isn't synced with the remote at the moment and if I am going to workout in the basement, I need some form of entertainment! I thought I would give it a shot and what do you know - it worked!

The only downfall - sweat on the keyboard. Yuck.

I took these the other day while relaxing on the front porch with the kiddos. I just love my babies. God is so good!

Only Two

2009-04-30T19:14:00.000-07:00

... pictures that is. Even though today was a really busy day, I was really on the ball this morning and actually REMEMBERED to bring my camera to KU's Cowboy Day today. But. alas, that is really where the luck ended. Oh, it was a great day - weather was BEAUTIFUL, food was great, kids had a good time, but the one kink in it for me was that while I had, in fact, remembered to bring my camera, it turned out to be low on battery power. So low, in fact, that I only snapped two pictures before all the juice was completely gone. Well, I got one, and Cade's teacher got one, but that's it. No more. Waahhhh:(

Only 2, and this one's blurry...wah again...

"Lankie" Baby

2009-04-21T20:52:00.000-07:00

I’m a little sad that my baby is growing up, and really want to remember him at this age, so I’ve compiled all of the pictures I could find of him with his “lankies” (blankies), plus a few more. You may recognize the song as one from Charlie Brown. Cade carries his “lankie” around so much that he reminds me of Linus. *small sniffle*

Ode to Flip Flops

2009-04-21T16:36:00.000-07:00

My very favorite thing about summer is my flip flops.

I realize that I could have said getting to spend more time with my children, lounging by the pool, that amazing brown glow you get when spending days in the sun, beautiful green grass and blooming flowers - all things I do love. But not my favorite. I am simply a flip flop kind of girl.

In fact, if it were socially acceptable, I would wear them most of the fall and early in the spring. I left out winter because I do get cold in blizzards!

My husband gets annoyed when I buy a new pair. He thinks I have way too many, but I always explain that they all have their own place and that girls just need to have lots of choices. It's like a cheap form of therapy. Retail therapy, but therapy none the less. And flip flops are less expensive than other shoes anyway - so it could be worse! I would say over half of my shoes are flip flops. And I have recently fallen in love with a new, comfortable, yet much too pricey brand - Yellow Box. They are so comfy and cute, and I have even shared my love of them with a few friends. (Before you start thinking of me as materialistic and such, know that even if I wanted to be, my hubby is much too much of a tightwad - in a good way - to even let me think about over-buying. Just wanted to clear that up.)

All that said to say this...

I bought these yesterday and I could not be more excited:)

Can you feel the excitement in my exclamation marks?

FLIP FLOPS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

PS To all of my family and people who check my site for pictures of my children - I will post pictures soon!

Happy Easter!

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Dye-ing (and death!)

2009-04-10T17:50:00.000-07:00

Death of an Easter egg that is....

I'm really not much of a tradition kind of gal. In fact, I'm as far from Betty Crocker as they come. I'm more of a free spirit, doing whatever activities sound fun at the time, all the while hoping that my children never feel as though they have "missed out" on any of the fun of their childhood. That said...

We dyed Easter eggs this year. We have done it before a few times, but I can't say that it is much of a tradition. Anyhow, below are a few pictures of all the "fun." I say "fun" because I made a decision to let Cade in on the fun, instead of excluding him like last year. Two year old boys are just not made to do this sort of thing. Really. They're not.

Busy little bees...

Smiley egg!

Those little color tablets are non-toxic...right?

One thing is for sure - they are nasty (from what I can tell - I've never actually had one) and they stain...

And when two year olds dye eggs, and you let them carry them around...

"All the king's horses and all the kings men couldn't put (the egg) back together again..."

Looth Tooth

2009-04-06T07:48:00.000-07:00

After being away for a long weekend in Canton with my BFF Liz (yes I know BFF is too young of a phrase for me, but it's my blog) it is nice to be home! I also got to meet an amazing, Godly friend for lunch yesterday at the Cheesecake Factory. That woman has some insight on the world and our conversations are WONDERFUL!!! I was welcomed by my children, Kinsey in particular, with "Hey mom, my tooth is fixin' to fall out" only to see that the thing was hanging on by a teeny tiny thread.

Kimmie and I both tried all morning to convince her that if she pulled it out before school, or at least the end of the day, that she would get her name on the chart at school for kiddos who have lost teeth this year - not to mention the going rate for lost teeth from the tooth fairy! After a few tears, and a promise to wear her "sparkly headband" - she finally pulled it ( and it didn't take much I might add!) Amazing what a sparkly headband can do:)

Now, I know bloody gum pictures are not that cute, but I've got to document it somehow! So, if you're not a fan, just don't look!

Notice the tooth behind it is 80% in already - think we waited too long to pull that tooth? I guess braces aren't the worst thing in the world.

A Snow Day

2009-03-30T07:24:00.000-07:00

I look outside my window
and what do I see?

Six inches of fluffy snow
waiting just for me.

School is cancelled for one day.
Buses cannot run.

That’s ok with me because
I’ll have lots of fun.

I grab my boots, coat, and hat.
I run, jump and play.

Scoop it. Toss it. Crackle. Crunch.
Snow Day! Snow Day! Yeah!
(borrowed from Renee @ Family Fun blog)

Mmmm - yummy!

Gettin' the tractor ready to move some snow...

Stop for a picture!

That's a long way down...

And back up...

Up to my waist!

Follow the tractor!

Here one day, gone the next. So goes the weather here in Texas :)

What I Want

2009-03-22T10:48:00.000-07:00

For the past few years, there has been quite a stirring within my heart. Call it a calling, a feeling, a desire - but it has been something that I wrestle with daily. It weighs heavy on my heart and guilt is constant companion.

You see, once I moved past a lot of my own issues with God, and church, and why I am here, I started focusing more on my own children's growth in Christ. Yes, I still have issues, but that is for another day. But I have felt this longing for my children to know Christ in a way that I never did growing up and for a long time, I let my church fill this role. And I am so thankful that they were there. But, it is not the church's responsibility to raise my child up in Christ. It's mine.

And really, I have known this for a while. But, for some reason, I never got from the realization to moving into action. Why? I'm not really sure, but I suspect it was a combination of selfishness and laziness on my part. And that is a hard pill to swallow. Oh, I made small attempts. We did a daily bible reading for a while, and then it fizzled out. We pray with them every night. We use "teachable moments" to talk about God. It isn't that God is not a part of our home, but He has been a small part. And I want more than that for my family, my children. Shouldn't they know how far and how wide and how deep is the love of Christ?

Are you here (and willing to admit it!:)? Have you been here, and have moved from calling to action? If so, how did you do it?

I realized that now is not too late - now is as good a time as any to begin. Last year, when I attended the Conspire Conference at Willow Creek Church outside Chicago, I thought we (I) had found a solution to this dilemma of moving from recognition to action - it was the church and our children's ministry. We needed vision - we needed to move to having a plan together to help the children's ministry be what we wanted it to be. Not just a ministry for children, but one for parents, too. We wanted someone to teach us to raise our children in houses of faith. We began re-working the vision and after a few months, it fizzled out.

I realize now that it was wrong of me to place all of the expectations for my child and their faith in my church. The church is a vital part of my child's spiritual growth, and faith, but it is not the primary one. That responsibility is mine, and my family. So this year, and in coming years, in combination of other families like mine, we are dedicated to being the place that our children learn about Christ - and live in love and faith. Did you know that when surveyed, children responded that a whopping 81% of them have faith because of their parents? And only 26% is learned from Sunday school. That leaves a huge gap and I don't know about you, but it scares me to death. I am not willing to place my child's faith in God, their eternity, in 26%. But together, in a partnership, we can be effective.

To begin our journey, we are using resources from Rob Reinow called Visionary Parenting. No, I definitely do not thing it is the only resource, or necessarily the best. But, it is something.

Can I ask a favor of you - my blog world? Would you pray for us in this new venture? If possible, even join us. We need you!

My apologies for this long post, but it needed to be said - if for nothing better than accountability. Thanks for reading - and may your day be blessed:)

This is How You Know What Love Is

2009-03-12T15:57:00.000-07:00

Today when I got home from Kid U, I found these waiting on the counter for me...

and this...

Beautiful, aren't they?

I have been wanting, no DREAMING of this coffee maker every since I saw it at a friend's house this winter. We don't own a coffee pot, which means if and when I want coffee, I either have to drive into town to a local Starbucks and pay around $5 a cup, or stop by a friends house unexpectedly at all hours of the morning and beg for one. Once they see the wild, crazy look in my eye, they usually comply and make me a cup. They're good that way:) Anyhow, now I can kindly return the favor thanks to the love and thoughtfulness of my sweet husband. Thanks Jimmy! I love you!!

God is Always Watching (and listening)...

2009-03-07T18:26:00.000-08:00

Every week, Kinsey brings home a book that she is responsible for reading to 3 - 5 people. After she is done with each reading, we sign her reading folder - and every week she is disappointed that she only has 4 signatures ( Jimmy, me, Kimmie and I sign for Cade). This week, however, Kinsey figured in one more that is always listening. Read # 5...

(Technically is says Gob (God) loves you, but you get the picture...)

She has a great example in her big sister, however. The first time that Kimmie made her OWN lunch for school, she wrote herself a note - which read, "You're awesome - have a great day! Love, Kimmie."

My Right Brained Child

2009-03-07T18:18:00.000-08:00

So what do you do when you are bored and have only some markers and paper?

Make your own baby (with accessories of course!)

Kinsey apparently made this Dr. Seuss baby (notice the hat) because her teacher had asked her to try the writing center becasue she rarely ever went there. So, while at the writing center, Kinsey made the baby, a bottle, a plate of food, and a spoon and fork. Pretty creative, I'd say!

Wacky Wednesday

2009-03-07T18:11:00.000-08:00

In celebration of Dr Suess' birthday, and his book Wacky Wednesday, students in Mrs. Seymour's kindergarten class got to dress as "wacky" as they pleased. Here is what Kinsey came up with :) (Ok, she had a LITTLE help from me, but truly, it was mostly her).

If Only Everything in Life Were This Good...

2009-03-03T15:21:00.000-08:00

Long Lost Photo

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:)

I found this picture while organizing my picture folder today - I love my sweet babies:)

Knock on Wood

2009-02-22T16:29:00.000-08:00

There's an old saying, "knock on wood," that is used to express a desire to avoid "tempting fate" after making some boast or speaking of one's own fate.

The expression is usually used in the hope that a good thing will continue to occur after it has been acknowledged. It is commonly thought that knocking on wood has been a superstitious action to ward off evil throughout history involving Pagan belief systems. The same reference claims that knocking on wood is also used in some form of Christianity, but in a different context, where the wood represents the cross.

Another explanation for this practice is the pagan belief that spirits (dryads) lived in trees. By knocking on the wood of a tree while making some sort of a bold statement, the speaker could prevent the spirit from hearing him and stop the spirit from interfering or out of respect for the wood spirit, touching a tree indicated seeking protection from the particular spirit. (Wikipedia)

Why did I just give you all of this meaningless history? One, because I am a continuous seeker of knowledge, a nerd. I don't just want to blindly say/do things without knowing the meaning behind them. The same is true for our religion - but I am getting way off topic.

The real reason for this post was simply this -

On Thursday, I made a comment to a friend that my kids had all managed to stay well this winter, and how amazed I was for this awesome revelation. No colds, flu, viruses, infections - nothing. As you might have guessed, I did not "knock on wood," and my middle child, Kinsey, woke up this morning with a fever. So please, for goodness sake, don't say such atrocities without first taking the proper precautions!

Merry Valentine's Day!

2009-02-14T20:00:00.000-08:00

There's nothing like combining two holidays to really get you in that "holiday" spirit. So we celebrated both Valentine's Day and Christmas today!
(No we're not crazy - my mom got sick over Christmas and this was the first time we could all get together again).

We ate ribs, beans, baked potatoes, and southwest salad and they were oh so yummy. Not a so traditional Christmas meal, but it was wonderful for Christ-entine's!

We also exchanged gifts, and my brother-in-law, Wade, even forgave Cade for opening part of his gift.

After the gift exchange, we played a version of the newlywed game. Questions included:
What is your wife's toothbrush color?
If your husband worked his dream job, what would it be?
What were you wearing on your first date?
What is your father-in-law's middle name?

My favorite question/answer of the night was given by my dad - who, in response to the question, "What was the strangest gift that your spouse has ever given you," responded - a wooden cow. It was hysterical!

Backing up a bit, this morning, the girls and I made a trip to the spa and it was so fun! They both were "Princesses for a Day" and looked beautiful. They got their nails painted, hair curled and soft face make-up. The stylists even got the "low down" on life in the Newman house for the past 2 years. Kinsey shared everything from the time that she ate her sisters tooth (that's a whole other blog), who she would like to kiss (but not married kiss), why she gets in trouble, etc... Needless to say, I blushed more than once and was glad to be done. And as soon as I can make my iphone pictures work on this blog thing, you can see the outcome. Beautiful girls.

Here's to hoping that your Valentine's Day was spent loving and being loved:)

Chores

2009-02-12T20:17:00.000-08:00

Be sure that when you tell your kindergartner that she needs to feed the pets every day...

that you tell her to stop when the bowl is full:)

Crazy Hair Day

2009-02-07T20:16:00.000-08:00

Stanley Birdbaum couldn't be more excited. He has rolled and wrapped and dyed his hair. He has dipped it and sprayed it and made it, well, perfect. He is ready to celebrate Crazy Hair Day at school. But when Stanley saunters up to the classroom, he learns, to his horror, that Crazy Hair Day is . . . next week. To make matters worse, today is School Picture Day, and everyone is expected to line up for the class photo! What's Stanley to do?

Luckily, in children's books, there is always a happy ending, and even a moral to the story. In this particular story, Stanley's class has compassion on him and in a huge outpouring of sympathy, decide that if they all have crazy hair, then Stanley will not stand out in the picture. Happy ending and all.

Life, however is not a children's story. Friday morning I went to get my haircut and it turned out, well, let's just say not as good as I pictured it in my mind. Through no fault of the stylist, it just turns that I don't like the cut. The good thing is that it will grow back, but for now, if you do happen to pass me by, just pretend that it's crazy hair day, and I'm just off by a week:)

Kids Say the Darndest Things

2009-01-30T08:48:00.000-08:00

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Last Saturday Jimmy walked in the living room wearing a light blue t-shirt. Kimmie asked, "Daddy, did you wash that shirt with a white sock - 'cause it used to be dark blue." My daughter, the thinker.

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While getting dressed one morning, Cade waltzed into the closet, like many times before. Why is it that kids have to be everywhere you are, including the closet, and the bathroom? After putting on my shoes, Cade exclaimed, "Mommy, so pwetty!" So sweet:)

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Last week, Kinsey told her Nanny (Jimmy's mom) that she had the coolest mom ever. *Soak it in because it won't be long before she hates me*

This week, she was also "Student of the Week" at her school. They sent home a big write up of all of the things that she likes right now, like Mr. Gatti's, mac and cheese, Hawaii, and her very favorite time that made her feel special - dinner with the King. THAT made my day:)

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Jimmy took a few pictures of the house outside the other day - you know, the day it snowed like crazy. He thought it might look better because the snow hid all of the trash that had blown in the week before - and guess what? It did!

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Cade's cousin Fox came over to play today while his mommy (my sister Leeann) went to the doctor's office. Those boys are a handful! Fox (or Fox-y as we call him) I walked into the toy room and found this...

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We Can Play Now:)

2009-01-24T17:25:00.000-08:00

I took this picture before we left for Chicago, but somehow it got lost in the downloading of pictures. I finally got the toy room somewhat organized! Now the kids can play with the toys they want and actually have all the pieces to puzzles, books in one place, dress up together, etc...

OK, they probably really do not care, but I do so - yeah!

I'm not showing the other half until there are pictures on the wall!

A return to Normalcy

2009-01-20T19:11:00.000-08:00

There's no place like home.

Ok, I realize that the above line is only funny to me - while in Chicago, we went to see Wicked on Broadway. It's a spin off of the Wizard of Oz:) We had a great time at the show and even Kinsey liked it. Although she did comment that 'the dragon freaked her out.' We also got into trouble for taking pictures in the theater. What? So I didn't see the five thousand signs posted, and hear the million announcements. It's not like I was taking pictures of the show anyway - just my beautiful girls, so we could remember the evening.

Earlier that day, we made a trek over to Target superstore. Targets in Chicago are nothing like Targets in Texas. We parked on the 2nd floor, and took an elevator to the 3rd floor. While in the store, we even took an escalator upstairs to another floor of Target - level 4! Our basket even took its own escalator -

And our course, we had to do lunch at my favorite restaurant, The Cheesecake Factory - yum! Then it was over to The American Girl Store . It's even hard for a mom to not go nuts in there! I will say that I did better than one grandmother there - who spent over $900!

We also went shopping one day in Schaumberg and got some great deals on clothes. Kinsey even managed to score some arm warmers and a sparkly hat.

On Sunday, we ventured around Navy Pier, which was very cold and not all we though it would be. But, we did eat some yummy seafood at Bubba Gump's. We also went to the Chicago Children's Museum. And for free I might add! We bought a family membership to the Discovery Center this past summer so the girls could go to some science camps there and it is part of a larger science museum co-op. If you are a member of one, you can get into the others for a reduced price or even free! We saved $36! It was a lot of fun - we could have stayed for hours.

The Water room was a lot of fun. WARNING! If they make you put on a raincoat, you are going to get wet. Just so you know.

What museum is complete without a fun climbing course?

Dinosaur expedition... No I didn't dress Kinsey that morning. She was exploring her own definition of "cool" by wearing one arm warmer. Hey - it works. She did have on her sparkly hat, but I guess that she decided it was too much...

Kinsey is a great supervisor... but not so great at actually digging in the dirt:)

There was even a great "build your own fort and have a snowball fight" area. Well, I don't know if that was the TECHNICAL name, but that's what we called it. We take our snowball fights seriously!

And of course, a dinner under the stars at the Rainforest Cafe.

All in all, it was a great weekend get-away. It was just what we needed to relax and recharge. If you notice, there are no pictures of Cade, but don't worry, he was home with Nanny and Papa (Jimmy's folks) having his own grand time.

The Windy City

2009-01-14T20:49:00.000-08:00

Jimmy, Kimmie, Kinsey and I and all headed to Chicago for the weekend - Jimmy for work and we are just tagging along:) We're keeping our fingers crossed that we get above freezing a few of the days!

Texas Sized Trash Compactor

2009-01-12T08:58:00.001-08:00

If you ever wondered why Texas makes everything bigger......

it's because we obviously need it!!!

We have had a lot of trash the past few weeks and since the garbage collection is only done on Wednesdays, we make the best use of the space:)

Life

2009-01-10T21:40:00.000-08:00

Life is good.

For the past few weeks, we have had any number of boxes sitting in our living room, calling for me to unpack them. Amongst them were about 4 boxes or JUST TOOLS! These were being used to simply work on the house. While we are still missing pieces of trim, some cabinets, some outlet covers, stain on the basement hand rail, and paint touch ups, I no longer have to look at boxes sitting around becasue they are eitherunpacked, or have been relocated to the guest room (where I can shut the door!). We still have a lot to unpack, but since the rest of the boxes are in the barn and we have managed to live without the for the past few months, I am in no hurry to finish unpacking those. Oh, I'll get to them, but in due time.

I finished unpacking the kids toy room, which was hugely rewarding for me (and them!) Toys are organized, and the kids spent most of the day up there rediscovering toys they have not seen in months - like Christmas all over again! I LOVE to organize things and this was a really big task weighing on me. Now the upstairs in completely unpacked. WOOHOO!!

In other news, I have been doing really well taking pictures. Oh, I'll post a few next week, but for now you'll just have to take my word for it.

A few weeks ago, a good friend gave me a hug. Now, I'm not a particularly "huggy" person. Ok, in fact I'm not really "huggy" at all. But when she gave me a hug, I could really REALLY tell that she meant it and that she was so full of love that it just radiated out of her. Now, this would come as no surprise to you if you know her, but it really made me think - can people tell that I love them by the way that I act? I mean, can they REALLY tell? What about my husband - my kids? My family? COMPLETE STRANGERS? I have been thinking about that hug almost daily. Crazy how seemingly small things can mean so much.

Potty Diaries Continued

2009-01-05T17:51:00.000-08:00

Still no #2 in the potty, but we made it all day with no OTHER accidents - yeah Cade!

I can't decide which is more dangerous, standing on a stool stacked on two tile boxes to go potty...

... or turning around backwards with hands on the back of the potty seat - his idea!

Random pictures from my lost camera

2009-01-02T21:13:00.000-08:00

Guess what? I found my camera today! I had to take my first picture of the new year on my iphone. But I am off to a good start taking my pictures.

Me and Cade at the girls Christmas parties

Cade and Kimmie - they just love each other!

Cade and Kinsey

Beautiful Kid U ladies

Cade's very bare room

Kinsey's stage ( though I should have waited until her wood flooring was put it to post this one)

Kinsey's room

Kimmie's room

My kitchen cabinets! ( They look a lot better in person - promise!)

At least we can put dishes up now instead of washing them and putting them back in a box:)

I Believe I Can Fly...

2008-12-30T20:58:00.000-08:00

Kinsey: Kimmie, I can really fly you know.

Kimmie: No you can't - no one can.

Kinsey: Yes I can.

Kimmie: Then show me.

Kinsey: Well, I just have one fly left, and if I show you, then it will be gone.

Kimmie: Then you should wish for lots of fly's.

Kinsey: Yeah, like one hundred-y nine.

Here's to hoping that we all dream big and believe in our dreams...

The Holidays and the House

2008-12-27T18:44:00.000-08:00

Sounds kind of like a children's book, doesn't it?

Our Christmas was wonderful, as I hope yours was. The presents were wonderful and plentiful and we all had TOO MUCH to eat. I really like the chocolate mousse that my mother-in-law makes. I should've thought to bring some home. Then again, that might be a bad thing.

One week ago, we moved into this house and though we have worked on it a lot over the past week, you wouldn't be able to tell. My mother-in-law was gracious enough to keep the kiddos Christmas Night through today, so we managed to get 90% of their rooms done. They are pretty cute if I do say so myself. I will post pictures when we have a little more done. Kinsey's stage is turning out so cute. She got a disco ball for the top and Jimmy rigged up some "stage lights" as well.

Now I am on the look out for a muralist. I really don't prefer "cartoony" drawings, but am looking for something cute for the inside of Kinsey's stage, one of Kimmie's bare walls, and a tree for Cade's room. I saw a really neat idea for a tree where the tree was painted on, and then wood plank stairs were added to create a 3D effect and a tire rope was hung from the ceiling - it was so cute! And I, as life would have it, am not talented in the drawing area. Does anyone out there know someone who can draw well?

Here's to hoping that you have a wonderful new year!

PS Forget New Years resolutions. This new year, I plan on trying something new. Because childhood goes by so quickly, I am going to take a picture of my children/family/life every day. I want to remember this year with my kids. Do you think I'll make it? I hope so. A year (through pictures) in the life of a Newman.

Anniversary and Potty Diaries continued...

2008-12-19T07:41:00.000-08:00

Yesterday marked our 9 year wedding anniversary. Last night while lying in bed, we discussed the past 9 years which included the birth of all of our children, their infancy, toddlerhood, potty training, and just plain growing up. We wondered if the next nine would be just as good, or better. In the next 9 years, we will experience both of our daughters in their teenage years, including dating and boys, and even learning to drive. We will even experience Kimmie's graduation. While I love to dream ahead, it really hits home how fast it does all go. I can remember dating Jimmy like it was yesterday, and even getting married. I can picture him at the end of the isle! Crazy, right? So for now, among the dreaming, I will be thankful for the chaos I am in - because time truly does fly when you are having fun. And as mushy as it sounds - I really am more in love with Jimmy more every day. Happy Anniversary!

I was looking for a wedding picture, but they are long past packed up - this one os the earliest on I have of us on the computer...

Haven't aged a bit!

PS Now the gushy part is over, and I have returned to life, and it's time to continue our potty saga...

9:30 a.m. No accidents! Cade woke up with a wet diaper, but that is expected at the beginning. After using the potty, about 30 minutes later, he went #2 in his underwear. He DID NOT like that feeling. He ran into the bathroom to tell me - crying. And just so he can remember what it feels like, I let him set for about 5 minutes in his chooey-yuck underwear. With Christmas parties this afternoon, I hope he does well. I hate changing yucky clothes while not at home. :( Here's to hoping your day is better than mine!

The Potty Diaries Volume I

2008-12-17T14:12:00.000-08:00

Today begins a hopefully short-lived, but probably not, journey of a 2 year old through yet one more milestone - potty training. I have to wonder why there are not classes available for us moms to teach us THE CORRECT way to potty train. Potty Training 101. Cade has had some success using the potty in the past month, so we decided that today was as good as any to begin the process.

And score one for us that one of the accidents was on the apartment floor, and not on our carpet on our new house! Because I like to keep things interesting, I opted to begin this process only 3 days before we move into the 95% done house. Crazy, yes, but crazy is my middle name. Stay tuned as we move along this journey through potty-dom. I am sure it will be interesting. Because if there is anything that us moms like to talk about, it's our kiddos pee and poo:)

4:15 P.M. 3 1/2 accidents - 5 successes. I say 1/2 because he did poo in the potty, but it was only becasue I caught him in time. And when I went to run my errand, I put him in a pull-up. I'm a chicken, I know.

We Survived the Nutcracker!

2008-12-14T19:45:00.000-08:00

Did you miss me?

I actually had a lot of free time on my hands the past few weeks, but it was interrupted by moments of rushing around and busyness. We spent the majority of the past week at Nutcracker performances and practices, and running back and forth between both. While it was a phenomenal experience for Kimmie (and I had a little fun, too) I am sure glad it is over! I have not wrapped a single present, and have yet to put up a Christmas tree. Now, before you think me a scrooge, know that I do love Christmas - a lot actually! But with us moving next weekend, I can only bring myself to put up a small tree after we move. Maybe this will be a good time to REALLY focus on the meaning of Christmas. We won't have anything else to get in the way - let's "experiment."

Below are a few picture from the New Nutcracker. If you had a chance to go see it - I hope you enjoyed it. If not, just imagine a magical 2 hour escape into a land of dancing toys, candy and fairies - not to mention the buffoons! It was fantastic.

Stupid Computer Error

2008-12-07T20:38:00.000-08:00

I wrote this whole blog post about making Christmas real for our kids, and not doing Santa at our house, but then an error occurred and I lost it all. So now, all you get is this poem from our church bulletin, which was at the end of the post, so, maybe another day you will really get to hear what I think about Christmas. But then again, it might just make some of you upset, so maybe this was a good thing. Either way, I am too tired to write it all again, so enjoy and soak it all in:)

If I decorate my house perfectly with plaid bows,
strands of twinkling lights and shiny balls,
but do not show love to my family,
I'm just another decorator.

If I slave away in the kitchen,
baking dozens of Christmas cookies,
preparing gourmet meals
and arranging a beautifully adorned table at mealtime,
but do not show love to my family,
I'm just another cook.

If I work at the soup kitchen,
carol in the nursing home
and give all that I have to charity,
but do not show love to my family,
It profits me nothing.

If I trim the spruce with shimmering angels
and crocheted snowflakes,
attend a myriad of holiday parties
and sing in the choir's cantata,
but do not focus on Christ,
I have missed the point.

Love stops the cooking to hug the child.
Love sets aside the decorating to kiss the husband.
Love is kind, though harried and tired.
Love doesn't envy another's home that has coordinated Christmas china and table linens.
Love doesn't yell at the kids to get out of the way, but is thankful they are there to be in the way.
Love doesn't give only to those who are able to give in return, but rejoices in giving to those who can't.
Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
Love never fails.

Video games will break,
pearl necklaces will be lost,
golf clubs will rust...
But giving the gift of love will endure.
You can give without loving
but you cannot love without giving.
Merry Christmas!

My Thankful List

2008-11-26T21:06:00.000-08:00

It has been over a week since my last post - am I getting lax or what? We'll just pretend that I have been spending most of my time with my children and husband and that is why I have not been online. Sounds good, right?

In reality, we have been out at the house a lot. I finished staining the trim today, but still have a few doors and painting the cabinets. My good friend Liz has been coming out a lot to help and it makes things go REALLY fast.

In other news, I got an iphone today! Yeah me! I didn't even ask for it:) I have been looking for an armband so that I can run with my phone and have music, too. I have been on Jimmy yo find a good armband, so instead of that he just got me a new phone! Is he good or what? Now there is a bit of a learning curve, so be patient with me when you call...

I took a few pictures this morning of the kids, and as always, I will share them with you...

Now, onto my thankful list...

I know that it is dreadfully dull and boring to simply make a list of things that I am thankful for, and maybe this is just for me. But here goes anyway -

* My God - the fact that I am loved unconditionally no matter what I do or how many times I mess up.
* My husband - what would I do without him?
* My three beautiful, wonderful little blessings who all came along at just the right time. They each are special and unique and precious and I can't imagine life without any one of them.
* My friends. My friends who I see occasionally and those who I see all the time. Those who I have known all my life and those who I only talk to once a year.
* My new house. I know it seems silly, but this house is a compilation of a lot of hard work and has been a labor of love. I hope it is the house that my children will grow up in and know as "home." I hope that my grandchildren come to know this as grandma's house.
* My family. My side and my husband's. Holidays like Thanksgiving only remind me of how blessed I am to have such a close knit family.
* My job. I love what I do and I believe in what it stands for. I love the hearts of the people I work with and the fact that they carry out the school's mission daily.
* My morning coffee. I love the feeling of sitting if even for just a few minutes to drink my morning coffee. It's usually not the first thing I do, but it helps me prepare for the day.
* A big Sonic Coke. This one can fix a lot of problems in my day - really, it can. It's comforting.

That's it for my list - make one for yourself and thank God for all of your many blessings. He's waiting to hear from you today!

Happy Thanksgiving!

What Was I Thinking?

2008-11-16T18:39:00.000-08:00

It's about that time. You know, that time of year where everything gets busy. Not busy like laundry and work and kids busy, but Christmas and holidays and traveling busy. The good kind. The kind where you want it to be holidays and family all year round.

I just love Christmas. It is hands down my favorite holiday. This year, we will probably be moving into our house right around Christmas time. I don't mind. Really, I don't. Yes it will be long and busy, but I really am looking forward to it all. What I am not quite ready for is the NOW. In an effort to try and be thrifty, and because I am really starting to like arts and crafts, we decided that I would paint all of our house cabinets and stain all of our house trim, except the upstairs. When we decided to do this, I was thinking that I had 3 months of nothing to do while sitting in an apartment. Just waiting. Now that we are a month out, I am starting to get a little worried! I also have in mind to put a brown glaze over our blue dining room walls, and possibly the kitchen. The green that we decided on turned out a little more pistachio instead of sage-ee like I was thinking. I might have to figure out a creative way of fixing this since repainting is not an option. Who knows, maybe it will look fine once everything is in its place.

OK, enough ranting - onto bigger and better things! I snapped this picture after church last week. These girls are BFF's through and through (whether they like it or not!) They grow too quickly...

Notice the paper game that H has in her hand? Do you remember those things? They could solve all the world's problems, or at least the days. Ah, memories. I wonder what my day would look like now if I used one of those to guide my choices...

All around the Mulberry Bush...

2008-11-09T19:20:00.000-08:00

About 1 month out from moving in to the house, and I am on the hunt for fun things for the kids rooms. Since moving in and of itself is so very time consuming and will probably take over our lives once we are in, I am planning on finding everything for the kids rooms, then sending them off for a weekend, and decorating them while they are gone. It will be our own little " Extreme Home Makeover - Kids Room Edition." SO, in the midst of preparing for this big task, I found the cutest thing today - see what you think!

One Mans Trash... and married kissing

2008-11-06T15:18:00.000-08:00

While in Canton, we found lots of great trinkets and treasures. These are the ones I could afford to bring home..

***Funny Kinsey Story***

Kinsey: Mom, can I give you a married kiss?

Me: What's a married kiss?

Kinsey: You know, where you open your mouth and eat each others lips!

My Little Picasso?

2008-11-04T17:54:00.000-08:00

These are the things I learned today.

1. Toddlers are extremely quick.

2. When you leave a toddler in the back of a shopping basket at Hobby Lobby with paint, even if the top is sealed, bad things will happen.

3. I learned that you really should always have a camera with you - just in case.

PS I also learned that acrylic paint stains.

Girls Weekend!

2008-11-02T18:38:00.000-08:00

Ah the joys of a chick trip:)

This past weekend, a friend and I drove down to Canton to Canton Trade Days - you know, the one weekend a month craft bazaar that they do. A friend told me about it and it sounded so great, we decided to take our own trip!

We had no idea exactly how huge it would be! When we arrived in Canton, we sat in a line for about 20 minutes just to park. But when we actually did find a spot, we found some of the most unique, fun crafts that I have ever seen - and some for really great prices, too! I will post pictures soon.

Tip # 1 Bring a shopping basket. When we arrived, we saw tons of them and thought that everyone was crazy. By the end of the day, we realized that we should've brought a shopping basket. Maybe they weren't so crazy!

After looking around the place for hours, we made the trek back to the car only to discover that we actually had no idea where we parked.

Tip # 2 When parking in a 50 acre parking lot, paint your car bright orange so you can see it. Really. Paint it.

Tip # 3 When your friend is being bitten by fire ants, do not laugh at her because karma will get you back. We were apparently standing in a fire ant bed and they started biting her. After about 3 minutes, and me walking a good ways, I started finding them on me! This was out first experience with those ants and man, do they hurt! Even today, we have huge whelps on our feet.

Tip # 4. The maps are seriously misleading. While we were finishing up visiting the big marketplace, we decided to go over to the smaller, older one. We THOUGHT that it was right across the street, but quickly found out that it was not. We had a mini adventure trying to hack our way through some woods where we thought that this place might be, only to be viciously attached by some thorn bushes. And I have the scratches to prove it!

Tip # 5 The Old Mill Marketplace was really not worth the huge amount of trouble it took to get there. Really. Not worth the trouble.

After a fun day in Canton, and then an early bedtime at 9:30, we made our way to Southlake to Target and The Cheesecake Factory. I think that my weekend is now complete.

PS The extra hour from daylight savings was an added bonus:)

Happy (Early) Birthday Cade!

2008-10-30T19:13:00.000-07:00

I know that Cade's birthday is really Saturday, on the 1st. I gave birth to him for goodness sake! Truth is, I will be out of town Saturday, on my son's birthday. While I have beat myself up about this, I find real solace in the fact that being here on this one day is not really a reflection of anything. It doesn't say anything about the kind of mom I am, or how much I love my kids. It just happens to be a day I will not be in town. What's the most important is the time I spend with him every day, and not just this one day. So, in true birthday style, here are the things that I want to remember about my baby Cade -

1. I love his bedtime prayers, and the fact that he asks to pray every night. Even though they are repetitive and short, I treasure them.
2. He absolutely LOVES his sisters. He cries when they leave for school or gymnastics and loves to give them kisses and hugs.
3. He is fascinated with keys right now. I mean FASCINATED!!! If I could make a toy that had 10 door knobs and keys, he would never do anything else.
4. When we go out to the house, he BEGS to ride the tractor - and he knows which keys go to the tractor and which go to the truck.
5. He is so sweet when he says thank you and please.
6. His favorite song is "Power" from this year's vacation bible school. I even gave his teachers a copy of the CD. We all play it all the time. And again. And again.
7. He really loves his daddy and daddy's truck. He loves his daddy!
8. His favorite book right now is Go Away Big Green Monster!. ( I know, we should be reading Goodnight Moon).

So Happy Birthday to my sweet baby Cade!!!

We love you baby boy!!!

Birthday at the Farm

2008-10-25T17:52:00.000-07:00

Toda ywe celebrated Cade's 2nd Birthday at the Amazingly Fun Farm. Though it was a small group, we still had a great time. It was "fall" chilly, but warmed up as the day progressed. The pictures below are from the day. In honor of Cade turning 2, we gave him a new "do." What do you think?

Caramel Apples and Flowers

2008-10-23T17:02:00.000-07:00

I am usually not one of those awesome moms who bring great and wonderful treats to teachers around holidays. But for once, and probably just once, I actually found a craft that I could do. And it turned out pretty well! I made caramel apples and dipped them in sprinkles. Then I made some chocolate suckers and stuck them in the apples for a cute fall treat.

And because my husband says he never gets any blog time, here are the beautiful flowers he bought me this week! The blooms opened today so I took a picture:)

I Know

2008-10-21T18:40:00.000-07:00

I know.

I have been a bad blogger lately. I really do have good intentions. I think in my mind all the time of great posts, but when I set down to write them, I get caught up doing something else. Homework with an 8 year old. Reading "Big Green Monster" one more time. Laundry. A quick card to a teacher. Writing a check for pictures ( I could post a whole blog about that one - $36 a piece + $8 a piece for group pictures - no wonder the economy is so bad! That's almost $100 for pictures that aren't even that great!) Don't get me wrong, this is my purpose and I love it. I will only live in the "minivan years" once.

I know.

You are all waiting anxiously to see what great words of wisdom come from this little blog.

I know.

Now you are on the other end laughing thinking - "Words of wisdom? I'm just killing time and looking for pictures of the kids.

I know.

I have not posted any pictures of the kids in a while, but I will soon. I promise! This weekend is Cade's birthday party, so you can rest assured that there will be pictures for THAT.

Now, on to business. A few pictures of the house - though not very good ones. Electrical work is done, though there is not much new to the house. The only things I can think of are that the brick is up and the front door is in. Jimmy has an estimated move in date of December 30. I sure hope so!

Front of the house.

Another of the front.

The door.

That's all I have for now - more to come!

A Week of Projects

2008-10-12T16:44:00.000-07:00

Finally, some pictures of projects that I have been working on...

Kinsey's Bathroom Mirror

Kinsey's mirror close up

Kimmie's mirror close up

Thw whole mirror

Just a cute pic of Cade:)

The old 17th century cabinet

Close up

Some stools I painted just for fun:)

Those have taken up most of my time these past few days. I still have in mind to paint our kitchen table and chairs ( we had to buy two new chairs since the others broke - and they are a different color). Any ideas for paint colors for the table? Most of the front part of the house will be earth tones - greens, browns, blues and a little red/orange.

We think we have eradicated the mice. Last count - Mice:0 Us: 7.

Tomorrow I have big plans to help Jimmy at the house - although we don't work really well together. Hmmm. On second thought, maybe I'll just stay home and read a book.

Hickory Dickory Dock

2008-10-05T20:44:00.000-07:00

What can I say, we really have a thing for nursery rhymes lately don't we?

This evening, while setting on the couch in our apartment, I saw a mouse run across the floor. Then, a few seconds later, another one ran across the carpet. 2 mice! I went right to Wal-mart to get traps and poison. I hate mice. They're small, sneaky and really quick. Yes, I do realize that we are bigger than they are. Yes, I do know that they will not hurt me.

I am really, really not liking this whole apartment thing. And now, we keep seeing them every 10 minutes. I am praying that it is just 2 and that the 10 traps we set up will catch them. Tonight. While I am sleeping. Hopefully.

In other news, I finished one of the girls mirrors this weekend and got started refinishing an old doll hutch. My dad says it is 17th century. I think it will look really nice one it is done. It has a lot of character.

Pictures to come soon!

Sympathy Filter

2008-10-02T18:21:00.001-07:00

I am learning that I am not a very good nurse. Actually, it is not something new, but only something I am reminded of when I am called upon to be a nurse.

I have earned a new nickname from my hubby over the past few days. Yup. Sympathy filter. He says that by the time sympathy from others reaches him, he can't even sustain his need for that caring because it filters through me and ends up having less meaning. Does that make sense?

I am simply not very good at being sympathetic. It's, well, PATHETIC. I could fake it, but I usually end up smiling, which gives way to my faking it, and therefore, cannot be enjoyed. I will do what you ask of me, and without complaining, but sympathy? No. If only Kinsey were a few years older - now she is truly empathetic. What did I miss in my childhood that makes me be less sympathetic? Who knows.

Oh, and to gain some more sympathy - my hubby wanted me to post pictures of his ankle gear.

So please, for my sake and his, GIVE THE MAN SOME SYMPATHY! (If that is your thing anyway:) )

Humpty Dumpty

2008-09-26T19:40:00.000-07:00

You all know this old nursery rhyme -

Humpty Dumpty sat on a wall (ladder)
Humpty Dumpty had a great fall
All the kings horses and all the king's men ( the plumbers that were at the house doing their job)
Couldn't put Humpty together again (luckily, Dr. Albract could:))

I know most of you have heard by now, but if not here goes. Yesterday evening my husband was on a ladder drilling a hole in our wall at our house we are building ( he's doing all of the electrical work) and fell about 6 feet. His foot caught a rung and he fell, trapping his foot between his falling body, the ladder, and the concrete. The plumbers that had been working that day brought him in to the hospital and I met them there. At about midnight last night, they took him back to do surgery - they thought that it shouldn't wait. He broke 3 connecting bones and shattered his ankle on both sides. They put in 2 plates, 1 screw and several pins and have high hopes. He will spend 12 weeks in this boot and will not be able to walk on the ankle for at least that long. After that, he will probably still spend some time in the walking boot. Please keep him in your prayers!

PS A prayer or two for me and the kids would also be appreciated since we are on the other end:) Jimmy will not be much help for the next few months, but thankfully Kimmie and Kinsey are good helpers.

Don't Cry Over Spilt Soda

2008-09-23T18:22:00.000-07:00

I admit it. I like to drink sodas. I'm not much of sweet eater - I'll take a Coke before much else. There's not much that a Coke won't fix.

In the past 10 days, I have spilt 4 Cokes. Seriously. 4. F-O-U-R. Can you believe it? The first one, I spilt getting out of my car. I tipped over to pick up something I dropped, and it fell. The second one - well, I dropped it right on the kitchen floor. I didn't even get one drink. The third was spilt at JoAnn Thomas' house after a church vision meeting - walking out the door - went to shut the door - bam - on the floor. And, last but not least, today getting out of the car, I went to get something out of the middle seat when Cade shut the door on me (so helpful, right?)

Do you think someone is trying to tell me something? I mean ENOUGH ALREADY! I'm not a coke-a-holic. I usually drink one a day or less. It just so happens that almost every one I've bought has been spilt. *sigh* Maybe I should switch to water (ya, right).

The slide!

2008-09-17T19:19:00.000-07:00

Just a few pics to add to the last post:)

The slide from the bottom floor

The slide from the upstairs

Kinsey's stage

Kimmie's loft (sorry the picture os so dark) - we don't have stairs to it yet

House Update Pictures and More...

2008-09-14T18:12:00.000-07:00

Sorry it has been so long to post (ok not that long, but long for me), we have been moving and cleaning and garage sale-ing this weekend. BUT, we are finally in the apartment, the Pans St. House is clean, and most everything is put away. I think this is the only time on our life that we will own 3 houses/living spaces:)

Below are a few pictures of the house, taken 3 days ago. I should have taken it out a day later because since the pictures they have put in the slide, Kimmie's loft and Kinsey's stage. The slide turned out to be a bigger deal than previously hoped, but they finally worked it out. Jimmy started out trying to put it together( mind you the entirety of the pieces were 2200 pounds including the hardware). He finally asked the framing crew if he could pay them to put it together - it took all 8 of them AND their strength to get it together, but they finally did it. Then came the actual getting it to fit into the house they way it is supposed to. All in all it is missing one piece, but looks good. Jimmy was too scared (and me too) to try it out, so he sent Kimmie down it first. No problem! (Thank goodness). I'll post more pictures later...

Chinese Proverb

2008-09-08T11:29:00.000-07:00

Little boy who sits on too small chair will have a sore bum and a broken chair.

(In case you were wondering, this is a chair fit for a barbie:) )

Cade was helping me clan out the toyboxes today and tried to "set" on a barbie chair - ummm, not quite, son.

Good to Know

2008-09-05T07:40:00.000-07:00

Here's a little advice to all those moms out there like me who have older daughters and a younger son. A few little tidbits I have learned...

1. Holding a baby doll and carrying a purse around only makes boys more sensitive - it doesn't mean they will be gay later on in life. ( I have no proof of this personally, but ask me in 18 years).

2. Boys are fascinated with their manhood. I don't know why, but they just are.

3. When you are in the store buying Magic Markers, do not be lulled into the buying the 50 cent box of crayola markers. Spend the extra money. Buy the ones that say washable. Little boys test them out on their clothes and themselves - more than once.

4. Boys have WAY more energy. (Think 'hurricane')

5. If your child eats a rock, it will come out looking exactly like it went in.

6. Boys like to GO - go on rides, go outside, go in circles - whatever - they just like to go! And they go FAST.

7. Boys stink. 'Nuf said.

8. Little boys voices are louder than 100 adults at a restaurant.

9. Boys bleed - a lot. I never bought so many band aids, held on so many ice packs, or kissed so many owies as I have in the past 22 months.

10. Younger boys will do everything their older sisters do, including painting their toenails (and it won't kill them - I promise:) )!

LOST!

2008-09-02T19:28:00.000-07:00

Lost

One sweet 5 year old girl. Answers to Kinsey, Kinsey-bug, Bud, and Sissy. Loves lip gloss, jewelry, sunglasses, purses and, let's face it, anything girly. Walks with extra "umph" and flair and lights up a room whenever she enters. Last seen at Wal-mart picking out dress-up clothes and not-so-patiently waiting in line to purchase said clothes. If found, please call ASAP.

Found

One "Gabriella Montez." Known to like Troy Bolton, singing and the Wildcats. Brainy, sweet and lovable. Loves singing and has been known to "go her own way." She loves being " all in this together" with her friends and they are definitely "all for one." She was found near a Wal-mart sack, receipt, and a few price tags.

I Might Need Some Help

2008-08-29T19:51:00.000-07:00

We made it - we survived the first week:) Though there were some tears (and maybe some from the kids, too), we now have the weekend ahead of us. The kids loved the first week, their teachers, and for that we are truly blessed!

Now for the help -

I finally went to get the kids bedding today for our big move into the new house! Now, I know it is not for 4 more months at least, but my wonderful husband is already asking for paint colors - AHHH! I am terrible with this kind of thing. I mean, REALLY. So, if you have an opinion for paint colors for the rooms, PLEASE help a girl out!

Kinsey's Rock Star Bedding

Kimmie's French Coiture

Cade's Green and Brown

Close-up of Kimmie's

Close-up of Cade's

And finally - a house update

The Beginning and the End

2008-08-27T19:20:00.000-07:00

Summer is gone. No more swimming, no more waking up late, no more laying around doing nothing. Nope, Summer has come to an end. A new school year began on Monday, with two of my children in school this year. I won't say the old " time has flown by" though it has. But, being at home, at least I have set the gears in slow motion to savor them. I will not look back and wish for something different for me or for them. The selfish part of me that wants to be teaching in the classroom and changing children's lives is locked away somewhere and grows further and further away the more I realize the importance of teaching my own children, and spending time with them. And there is not much more precious than savoring that amazing first school day.

First Day of Kindergarten!

Bye Mom!

3rd Grade

Just happy to get his piece of the camera action -

We're ready to go!

Fancy Kinsey and Her Posh Party

2008-08-23T20:32:00.000-07:00

***** Warning - LOTS of pictures in this blog post*****

What a wonderful time of fancy fun -

First up, the cupcake contest. Everyone got to decorate their cupcake as fancy as they wanted, and Kinsey picked the fancies of all! Let's look at all of the creative guests...

Kimmie's Abstract Red on Blue

Emma's Sweet Surprise

Molly's Splash of Springtime Color

Leeann's Sparkly Crown on White

Julie's Bubbly Bursting Display

Hayleigh's Shades of Pinkilicious

Hannah's Too Good to Wait Cupcake

Becca's Classic Sprinkles on Pink

Jennifer's Purple Flower Power

Jimmy's Purple People Eater

Charity's Shining Star

Kinsey's Whirly Swirly Sparkle-cake

Momo's Regal Red and Blue

Liz's Curly K-cake

And the winner is.....

Leeann's Sparkly Crown on White!!! Way to go Leeann!!

More Pictures from the party below:) (Yes, they are swinging a guitar at the pinata - guess who forgot the pinata stick? We'll just say that they were practicing as future rock stars:))

HAPPY BIRTHDAY KINSEY ALLYN!!!!!!

House Update

2008-08-22T20:32:00.000-07:00

*****House Update!*****

We now have a barn and a foundation and framing begins Monday. I am in "dreaming" mode and was looking over the house plans. I am sharing so you can "dream" along with me:) As I type, our slide is sitting outside our front door in several different pieces on a trailer. I can't wait!

I realize that these are really small with lots of extra lines, but they are a start!
If you click on them, it brings the pictures up bigger.

PS Oh yeah, and I passed my principal exam! Woohoo!

Oh No!!!!!!

2008-08-22T10:43:00.000-07:00

It's happened. A milestone. A nightmare. Cade has learned how to...

OPEN DOORS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!

Happy Birthday Kinsey!!!

2008-08-21T10:27:00.000-07:00

5 years ago today I gave birth to my beautiful, wonderful, full of life, precious baby girl, Kinsey. She was born at 4:20 p.m. weighing in at 7 lbs 15 oz.

A few of her favorites this year are:

Fancy Nancy ( I'll post pictures from her party on Saturday)
Barbies
Baby dolls
Make-up (not my personal favorite)
Polly Pockets

Kinsey is my girly, fru-fru, fancy girl. I love you sweetie! Happy 5th Birthday!!!